YoYO! So I have this ex that im all stuck on one-itis type shit and first off I would like to say she motivated me to start getting into PU, I dont feel like giving her that much credit but hey.. she can at least have one brownie badge for putting up with my shit for 9 months.. Any way shes HB10 signed model and and scooped her just by natural game (3 months of DHV and Alpha shit lol) i know 3 months i feel retarded now, but i was set on getting her and finally got her..

anyway she dumped my ass when it was time for her to move out of town and I was becoming a mega pussy boy because i had lost all ambitions of a man( tore my ACL, couldnt work, and lived with her dad) I felt like a complete pussy.. then that was it.. like a week after she already had a dude lined up and i decided to make a song about her ( i rap and shit). which completely destroyed both of us.. Lowered her value, made her sound like a complete bitch, but of course shes a hot girl so she had a bunch of ppl hating on me. ha, even though the song got me alot of small town publicity and recognition..

Then she ended up moving of course to go to college and pursue modeling and she decides to hit me up about a month ago.. and we were texting a little and i pretty much said like, if i come down were gonna have sex because were good at that and she responded like "Is this really you"(impressed).

then i stopped texting her for a bit, then i texted her a few days later and said it was time to see where shes at.. so i said fuck that and called her up.. she ended up talking about how shes working at michael kors and how shes hanging with all these famous ppl, goin to palm springs alot blah blah blah.. Talking about how ppl aren't cool because they arent "brand".. it honestly disgusted me thats shes getting all materialistic because the girl I know was super down to earth and legit AF.. but whatever..

So she texts me like once a week and sends me funny pictures, or some pic from FB of two of our friends on FB who are together but its a weird couple " LOL WTF IS THIS" or some shit, and i dont respond to any of it.. Cause I just wanna avoid her unless she wants to fuck.. and im waiting for a real text, so a few nights ago she texts me we some real shit(finally) and said something like "Can we just end all this and come to an actual agreement to be friends"

I feel like she still wants my attention, but i dont want to give her any unless she wants something "real" or to fuckk..

Any help? Or should i just move the fuck on.

Dude, I think you'll be fine by just reading your OP you already know what went wrong. You got her and became a needy bitch. No offense.

Just get back to where you were before you two met. If I were you I wouldn't wanna become friends. You clearly want to fuck her she does not. So just drop her like a sack of shit. You can do better man.

As a man with many failed relationships under my belt, often due to lapsing into neediness, if I could give anyone advice when seeing a girl or entering a new relationship, it would be ALWAYS HAVE OPTIONS!!!

That doesn't mean you should cheat of course, but it means that both of you should know that you are a popular guy with options and if she dropped you, you would have a queue waiting to snap you up. Keep her on her toes, maintain an element of mystery and excitement, she should feel like you are with her because you want to be, not because you're desperate and she just happened to be interested in you so you settled.

I think that guys often fall back into the classic "fantasy ideal" when they begin dating someone exclusively, the fun player vibe gives way into idealised romance. At least, this is my pitfall. When you really like someone, it's easy to want to forget everything you learned here and shower her with love, attention and romance. It is difficult to still be gaming women and having options, but until you're in a committed monogamous relationship, I think it's the only way to successfully avoid that neediness that can cripple so many relationships before they even start.

It would be lovely if it were like the movies where rain-soaked romantic platitudes are the way to a woman's heart, but unfortunately it isn't. So keep your options open, always game other women until you're committed to that person, and even then you musn't be predictable or lazy. This isn't to say that you should never let any romance into your life either, but I, and many other guys often buy into this ideal and ultimately lapse into neediness and kill the attraction.

I don't really know where I'm going with this post, just kind of went off on one...

I understand your post and it makes sense. If this works for you than fine. I personally had good long term relationships and never had any other girls waiting for me in case we break up. However I always have a ton of other stuff to do besides my girl which makes me happy so I don't have to rely on her for my only source of happiness. I think that's when you become needy. Because you NEED her to be happy.

I think that keeping other girls as options is disrespectful to my girlfriend and to those girls, but this is just my personal opinion.

I understand your post and it makes sense. If this works for you than fine. I personally had good long term relationships and never had any other girls waiting for me in case we break up. However I always have a ton of other stuff to do besides my girl which makes me happy so I don't have to rely on her for my only source of happiness. I think that's when you become needy. Because you NEED her to be happy.

I think that keeping other girls as options is disrespectful to my girlfriend and to those girls, but this is just my personal opinion.

I should clarify, that I meant you should keep options before you're officially in a monogamous relationship with clear boundaries, if you're not officially together and haven't had the relationship talk, then I don't see a problem with flirting. But yeah, I've been in situations where my only source of happiness has been a woman, which is a terrible place to be and a clear sign that you need to re-evaluate your life.

I understand where I went wrong, I just wanna know what I should do with her now lol.

I feel this.

Ignore the message and set a date.
Escalate, she likes it, sex.
She doesn't, move on.

Down.