Hey guys,

Bit of a issue for me here.
Im having a relation with a girl for the pas 4months now.
I really like her and stuff but she is a girl that doesnt show real much affection especially on SPAM.
I see her 2 times a week, thats not an afwul lot but she has her work, me on the other hand im still searching for a job.

I am always the one that asks if she wants to hang out wich bothers me beceause when im ask she always replies "Idk yet" wich I think is really fucking anoying.
Its my own problem too because I am a lot on my own because I dont have a job jet wich make me overthink things sometime's. But still!
She always says yes one day or at the day she is coming.

I know I am getting too needy sometime's but that is beceause I really want to see her and she seems to not giving a single fuck about seeing me.

But when she is with me she always wants to cuddle and hold my hand and stuff.
It really drives me crazy beceause when im alone and chatting with her I get angry but when I see her it seems all oke.

How do I get her to care a bit more about me or atleast showing it?"

Sometime's I really mis being single but I dont want to lose herr

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Art is in the Eye of the Beholder.

Stop initiating as much and step back a while, accept that she has her life and she can't pander to you constantly. I've been in your situation where a relationship is the ONLY thing keeping you happy or occupied and it isn't healthy and it's a fast track to neediness and fucking it up.

Get some hobbies, focus on getting a job and see friends more.