Hey guys,

I got a weird problem.

My girl and i have been together for 2 years now. Things are great but now they are getting weird. Shes into business as am I and recently shes been spending all her time with this girl who works for her.

It's all good they are not lesbian or anything autho her friend does swing that way but it's cutting into my time. Tonight she just ran off and told me shes going to bed then I find 3 hours later at 12am shes at a cafe working with this girl. They are going away together for the weekend next week and it's like I am 2nd in this relationship now because that girls taking all the time with my gf.

Yes I still get alot of time with my gf but so does this other girl and it's messing with me abit.

I got upset tonight and called my gf up about it. Told her how I felt and was met with "I need to get some sleep bye"

Not sure how to best deal with this other than taking a step back from the relationship - it's just messed up. I am the type of guy who thinks your gf should be your best friend but right now this other girls getting more loving than I am.

What should I do? Is this a normal thing for some types of girls? Should I relax and let them hangout all the time and just go find more friends of my own to hangout with so it doesnt bother be?

Thanks

P.S. in the last week intimacy has gone way down and she doesn't want to stay over at mine. no explanation :/

Dude, you are being WAYYYY to needy and dependent on this girl. Go hang out with your friends man. Do something that doesn't involve her. Fuck, go to a bar and talk to other girls. It doesn't mean you have to pull them... just talk to them and flirt a little bit. Make the girl jealous.

It seems like she needs to be put in check. You are letting her walk allllll over you.

Ok you are right. I heard today shes catching up with some dude she has a history with I have seen her flirting with etc. First time in a year that they are 'catching up' over drinks. Thought I was past this crap, she had a massive moan to him last time about me being a jelous douche bag to him. I've never even met this guy and he was telling her she needs to leave me and be with someone else.

Will get the guys together and start doing my own thing, if shes seeing this dude then she must really think she has me under her thumb because it's a big smack in the face.