My girlfriend gets spurts when she wants to see me and i always give in and lately ive been begging for attention.

So i know the deal with pull back and let her start chasing me again but when i do that she does the same thing. I told her i was busy the other day and had to finish working on my house then i msged her hrs later and said all done and then she told me she was busy and we can hang out another day. This happens all the time so i normally give into her when she wants my time or i don't get any time with her. Other then this little thing, things are good but i NEED to get back my control. I don't feel like the confident person i was when i was single and i need to change my thinking again but i definitely want to maintain a relationship with this girl!

Any tips or tricks you get give is appreciated!

Are you busy? Do you have stuff to do without her? Then do those things.

The best thing to do to help is to go out and meet girls. I'm not saying cheat. It will help you big time.

Also how often do you meet? How old are you guys? This makes a lot of difference.

What you shouldn't do is tell her that you are busy to pretend you are busy. If you are bored and want to see her then tell her. It's not afc. What's afc is to something you don't want to do just to increase attraction. That backfires always.

You should do other things with your life other than having a girlfriend.

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