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Hey Guys,
After lots of nights in the city going out with my friends I finally met this girl wich is now my girlfriend for a while.
Im really satisfied with her and I dont feel the need for other girls (yet), but I guess that a good thing!
But my problem is is that since I really felt in love with her and still am I feel insecure about myself and my actions because normally I didnt had really something to lose, I mean if a girl blew me off well I would try the next one but now im really afraid of losing her.
Even if she stays with me for a day or 2 im already a bit depressed when she leaves wich I dont really like.
Do you guys maybe have some tips for this?
I have felt similar issues. Hell, I still feel it from time to time when the weekend is over and I know it's gonna be a while to before I meet her. Even though we have been together for 6 months soon.. It's normal when you have a new crush and are in love. You think about her all the time, and it makes you irrational!
Anyways, the solution is easy : fill up your days with social stuff, have a life. Be bizzy, that will also help against neediness.
true true true, i cant underline enough the importance of keeping your own life no matter what...
I gave up all my plans (going out with friends, playing soccer etc.) to be with my girl, and in the end it fucked me up big time.. me and my girl are still together, but dammit things would have been so easier if i didnt give up my life at first... Now i am trying to get it back, but it is soooo hard..
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