me and my gf shes a V, i wanted to have sex with her done everything foreplay she was proper turned on but she didnt want to have sex and now she wants to see me on thursday so i was thinking should i just dont touch her sexual way then she will be thinking about it or should i still touch her sexual way ??

or how would you act to your gf after first time you tried sex with her she didnt want to fuck (shes a virgin by the way

I wouldn't act uninterested because it may make her wonder why. There is a ton of useful posts on how to bang girls on here. You may need to escalate more by using foreplay more and longer. Here is a really good how to video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_BPoC7Ru54

If given the chance again escalate, but do it slowly, and when she pulls away, no sweat. Try again when it feels right. She won't make a big deal about it unless you are overly aggressive. She probably wants to, but is scared, losing your virginity is different for a girl. Appreciate her whole body (especially if she doesn't fully appreciate it herself) Stop being so concerned about your own feelings and take her feelings into consideration. Is she enjoying it? Does she feel good? Focus more on arousal than escalating. Sometimes NOT doing something and teasing her a bit is the best way to really get her going.

One of the things I did, was say "We should stop" when i felt a little resistance then continued going, drives girls crazy. But never show that it is fazing you mentally that she won't you. Just tell you understand and you don't have to have sex. And don't just tell her that, show her.

There's many factors at play here... how old is she? What type of girl is she... does she view sex as a big things with emotional commitment or is it just sex... most women who are virgins find it as a huge commitment and won't develop the other mindset until later in life...

I would focus on making her feel more comfortable with you... showing her that having sex with her is no big thing to you if it happens or not... but that it would be extremely special for you to be her first... also focus on running the bases with touching before jumping into sex... slowly build her up to sex... you have to get her crazy for you... or have her fall in love with you... your choice,...