So I'm in China. A girl I met told me her bf living in another province hadn't seen her for 8 months. I f her. She distances herself from me. She comes back. Repeat. She tells me Saturday that her bf is finally coming to see her for a week, and coming that night. I slip and say "The thought of him touching you makes me sick." I make no contact with her until last night when I forwarded her a text I got which contained Chinese. She translated it. This morning I asked her if he was treating her ok. Stupid, I know. I have not responded to her text yet, which read something like this: "He is good...haha. Don't worry about it...thx."

Now, this guy is a real shit heel. Please, have no sympathy for him. What should I do? Should I blow this guy out by humiliating him in front of her? Should I wait until after he leaves? My emotional connection to this girl is tepid but real, and her body is spectacular, so I want a little more out of this before I move to a new province. I assume that this asshole is treating her very well, so I'm not sure what to do.

Thx

Biggest mistake was your paranoid text about the boyfriend. You should not even acknowledge him as a threat.

This girl's respect for you is at an all-time low because you've allowed yourself to be put in the bitch position, you are in 2nd place, 2nd choice. Retain your dignity and break it off, go no contact. This girl is dicking you around and laughing in your face while she does it.

Plus, the girls a whore, clearly.
The simple fact of being with another man while having a boyfriend, and letting the other man know is disgusting.

EXACTLY the OP has feelings for a chick who has a boyfriend. You should have girls on the side, you are not in a relationship with this girl, who gives a damn if her bf is seeing her.