Hi all, been apart of the old community and used PUA to get my current gf 2.5 years ago.

Out of the blue last Friday, we were in bed and she said "things aren't the same anymore" and it all went downhill from there. (background that happened that day- she told me she set up a double date with one of her girlfriends and her girlfriends bf, both of which I do not like and she knows this- for the following day, but to the better of my judgement in the heat of the moment I let anger show that she didn't tell me ahead in advance)

Long story short, her answers to every thing I said was "I don't know" (asking her if she wanted to work through it, etc those types of questions)

Her reasoning kept changing when we were talking about it- from things aren't the same to I don't hold her hand and cuddle with her enough to whenever we're together, there's nothing to talk about anymore.

Saturday, she said she needed time to think about us and the future and I haven't contacted her since. Though she did give me a candid BS text "I dont want you to hate me and I dont want to lose you. But I cant do this just for you. I need to do it for me too." before I cut contact with her.

My question is what are my options now and what should I do? So far, I've just lived out my life and hung out with old friends most of Sunday and Monday night after work at a bar. I did drunkenly send a "Hi there." text at 11pm, but didn't get a reply (probably asleep already)..

I had something like this just recently almost to the tea, 2 and a half years then all she wanted to do was hang around with people she knew i didnt get along with or like, and then cancelled on me to go to a party with them...

the truth of the matter was when we got down to it and i was honest with myself, we ahd got stuck in a rut, nothing was new nothing was special it was just all going with the flow i guess...i had become the effect of situations when i used to be the cause! (in a good way)

so ive just been living, and being friendly with mine, and its been little over a month now, before i said, right either tell me the dam truth its clear u still got feelings or get outta my life because its driving me crazy, and she did and since then she has been contacting me and texting me etc...

so yea just live how u did before, dont contact her use social sites to let her see what your doing, if you do feel the need to tlak to her and i no its hard, and i caved a few times...but you CALL HER not text if she doesnt answer leave a voice mail, dont then txt seems to eager and just say something like, is this little blue jacket yours something pointless, etc just to see if she is willing to stay in touch, if she thinks your not trying to restore stuff and it gets easier from there ....

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