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PostPosted: Thu Apr 11, 2013 3:14 am 
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With no clue i'd appreciate some advice from you experts

So I saw this girl working at a store and started sarging her aiming only to get laid like I've done so many times before. Most girls I sarge are shallow and dumb, but hot so I don't care. But this girl was different, she shared all my interests, valedictorian, insisted she pay when we hung out, guy-like personality, set up hang outs and asked me out, on top of being a HB9. But of course there is always a catch. I kinda fell for her and decided to keep going even though she said no sex before marriage b/c she was def girlfriend material. My dilema is that when I asked if she wanted to formally start dating (we've been hanging out for 5 months) she said "maybe after I graduate" (in 4 more months) Is that a subtle way of her saying she's not interested? Did i get friend zoned? Is there any way to test this, or is it time to move on? thanks


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 11, 2013 3:20 am 
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With no clue i'd appreciate some advice from you experts

So I saw this girl working at a store and started sarging her aiming only to get laid like I've done so many times before. Most girls I sarge are shallow and dumb, but hot so I don't care. But this girl was different, she shared all my interests, valedictorian, insisted she pay when we hung out, guy-like personality, set up hang outs and asked me out, on top of being a HB9. But of course there is always a catch. I kinda fell for her and decided to keep going even though she said no sex before marriage b/c she was def girlfriend material. My dilema is that when I asked if she wanted to formally start dating (we've been hanging out for 5 months) she said "maybe after I graduate" (in 4 more months) Is that a subtle way of her saying she's not interested? Did i get friend zoned? Is there any way to test this, or is it time to move on? thanks
Sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it too(wants to still mess with other guys while your waiting for her to commit) do not go alpha and accept this. Remember YOU are the prize not her, game other girls and make this chick chase after you and ask you to make it official. If she doesn't then you dodged a bullet by not being at her command and making you wait. There's plenty of females out there remember YOUR the prize not them.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 3:08 am 
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This one is hard to read. You consider her gf material, she apparently doesn't consider you bf material if she isn't eager after 5 months to tell everyone and anyone you're her bf.

Sounds to me like you found and alpha female, and that is all well and good. The problem is that she is still a woman, and at the end of the day, she's just like any other woman in that she doesn't want a man she can walk all over.

The fact that you have not f closed is a major cause. You weren't aggressive enough and didn't escalate soon enough. I write this assuming this chick is not 15. Grown women will put out within 5 months, and if they won't, they are not gf material for me. There is no fucking way I'm going 5 months without pussy.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 3:49 am 
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Sounds like one-itis. As the above poster said, she sounds like an alpha female. My guess is she's motivated (which is a good thing) but to the point where she's not going to compromise her values and her last semester getting into a relationship. Bad timing, so best to move on but you can continue but play by her rules and hope she values that.


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