Since one month and half I have started to see an happy married woman I picked on metro, a really 10 smocking hot, she is asiatic esthetician, slim, fit, small ass, silicon tits, big lips just something that makes lose control of your testosterone. Than we started to text really crazy for weeks, than we meet the first time, and it was a long 9 hours trip without any sex or kissing but with a lot of conversations and flirting.
Then I invited her once again to my flat but she did a shit test on me, and I was pretty exited and I reacted badly, showing to her a bit of weakness. Then we have been texting again pretty intensively, but she never accepted my next invitations. Now after I tried to invite her for several events and being always turn down (last two weeks), I stopped to propose her anything. The strange thing is that she is still messaging me everyday but she has never invited or proposed me to meet eachothers somewhere, and she is always complaining that she is super busy.
Now if I had a 5-6 girl I would have just stopped this relation, but because she is so hot I'm still having some dreams about her. Actually I would love to have her as a girlfriend and we discussed about my willing to get into a serious relationship.
What would you suggest to do ?

Man there are so many girls out there why go after a married one?? that just messy and imo wrong unless she is totally unhappy and about to get divorced its not worth it imo.

Don't. Fuck. Married. Women.

Maybe you don't understand, but that sort of shit will get you killed. Ever heard of "crime of passion"? That's what happens when a husband comes home from work early and kills you-- "the other man", with a rusted ice hook.

Divorced women are WAAAAAAAY better. Bitter, vengeful, looking for some young, handsome guy to hate-fuck her brains out and stick it in the face of her deadbeat ex.

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I'm married and if you did that to my family I'd make sure to castrate you...

I'm not even joking!

Play with fire and you will get burnt

Hey guys thank you for your fear answers, I was wondering a bit about stopping this shit. To be frankly it is the first time that I'm in that kind of situation with a married woman, and she told me about it after we had already flirted a while. It seams she is not completely satisfy with her life, always running and filling the void, but she was also seducing me in a strong way, and chatting me up like a crazy. And both we had such a great vibe.
I agree I would not like to have the same situation if I was married, but look how many divorces do we have in our society, and I think a lot of people they find them self close in a happy prison, without the skills to free them self from a sad and unsatisfied life.
Probably the wiser thing to do is to stop this shit, and say to her that if she was free we could have being able to carrying on this relation, but like that is an impossible affair.

@gtdave just a question, if you are happily married what are you doing in this forum ?

I have had a relationship with a married woman before mate. I can say that it's very exciting, just the fact that she is forbidden. And those 3 months were one of the best time of my life. But any time I think back I feel like dogshit mate. Not because of the girl, but because of the guy.
Now people can say that this is mostly the girls fault and I was just a man doing what I was wired to do, but it takes two people.
I would not do it again but that is just me, I don't want any more guilty feelings on my conscience.
And it will eventually turn out. And If the husband finds it out, which he probably will and he is that type, you might get hurt physically. I guess you don't want that.
So my advice would be, find someone else quickly before you get involved in this.

@ AFCToTheMax
thank your for your advise, pretty good point. I'm also a kind of guy with morals and values and I know what you say about exiting of the experience. But I would not be happy if I was the husban and somehow is crazy that some married women are open to do this king of game and extra relationship experiences. I'm already having somehow the shit feeling, but on the other side the attraction to a smoking hot one is pretty intense, just have to cold down my emotions. Than there was also the fact we was playing with me telling that she would see her spending the rest of her life with me, but than she is afraid to be alone and take her risks, while I'm the one with much more risks on.

You are the one who risks more ? You married or have a girlfriend ? She risks her marriage.
I can see that you like this girl. You'll be even more into here once it becomes physical. Once that happens there is no going back If it hasn't already.
Clearly her marriage isn't ideal so it might end anyway. The problem right now with you is you can't think straight, which is understandable. You can also cut contact with her for a while a few months probably to clear your head a little bit and maybe then you can make a better decision, maybe she sorts out her relationship.
Anyway there is no right or wrong thing here really but the best solution is to find someone else. At least for now.

I joined this site years before I got married! I still check in every so often to read the posts and offer any advice I might have...