Hey so there's this girl who I've liked for a while and a couple of weeks ago I ended up staying over her place because I had no where else to stay. Since I have been confused about how she feels about me for a while, I made a move on her and we made out a little but then she stopped me and said she just got out of a relationship and doesnt wanna move fast with me. I then said ok you dont have to do anything you dont want to and we just cuddled and slept together. The next morning we hungout in her bed and just talked. While talking she hinted at the idea of going on a date with me by saying she kissed me and hasn't even gone a date with me. So I said let me take you on a proper date then. But it was the weekend before thanksgiving so next weekend wouldnt work. She also lives about an hour and a half from me. Then this past weekend I asked her again and she said she was sick. Some of my friends say that I should tell her when we are going out as oppose to asking her when she is free, is this a good idea? I don't wanna give up but I also don't wanna seem like I'm willing to wait around for her and keep asking her every week. I'm having trouble finding the line of bothering her and not caring enough about her. Any advice?

You're bothering her.

Give her some space and rest, and when you do contact again, do not invite her to do anything, just light conversation, what she's been up to, etc. Show interest in her, but do not ask her out. She'll start to wonder why you are interested but not asking her out, and the game will ensue. But if you ask her out, I can just about guarantee she will not accept now.

Just for future reference, she wanted to fuck you while you where in her bed, she only gave slight LMR, and YOU GAVE UP!

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

When should I talk to her again?

There's no set rule for this. Get busy with your own stuff. Go out, have fun. Hell, pick up other girls for kicks. It'll get your mind off her. Personally I'd wait until she messages me first but if you choose to message her first, the time will become apparent. A week of space minimum.

_________________
Hank Moody: Life is too short to dance with fat girls.