So it has been a month with my current girlfriend and I. I made the right moves and we got together. Right now she teaches in Cali until the summer but is from Chicago like me. She comes back for holidays and such. Anyways we're always texting/calling/skyping and everything is great until she comes come from Thanksgiving. That is when things scare me. She said initially shes busy cuz of the holiday. Then we xchanged a few texts 48 hours later. Its been a week and barely any communication. We have a date in several weeks. If i keep trying to text her im going to come off as desperate and annoying. However if I stand still i feel that it will die out our relationship. She's the hottest girl I've ever had. I can't lose this one. This has been running through my mind forever I need to know:
1- What is she trying to pull? Should I be worried?
2- What i can do to handle the situation.

Do you think she is dwelling on you like this?

Would you be interested in a woman who did dwell on you like this?

If you text her, do it casually, you just wanted to say hey, hope you're doing well and things are going well.

Be nice, but don't be needy and definitely don't over do it. If she feels like she's drifting away, next time you have a chance to talk openly, tell her it feels that way to you, and if that's how it is, you just need to know so you can find someone else.

Just because she is hot, do not put her on a pedestal. She will get old and wrinkly too just like the rest of us.

It's hard for her to text you with someone else's dick in her mouth.

Who gives a shit what SHE is doing, Stop making her your highest priority!

Make YOU the priority!

Over messaging is needy behavior, the reason why girls hate guys that are needy is because girls are attracted to MEN. Being needy is a characteristic of a child not a man. A Guy who acts like a child (needy) “is asking" a girl to treat you like a mother and girls hate that. Women want a man that can lead them into wonderful experiences. Women want a man that can make them feel beautiful, sexy, fun, safe, excitement, desire, attraction, all at the same time, regardless of age, income, or looks. A woman has to surrender to you in order for these things to happen. How do you expect her to do this if you are the one acting needy?

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

Let her start to wonder what the fuck your up to, not the other way around!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

And how many men are gonna say 'she's so hot i cant lose her'. Who gives a shit how hot she is? doesn't mean she gets treated any different, you wouldn't let a 3/10 mess you about so why the hot girl?