Hi,

Its my based principle that once you are in a relationship, cheating is a no-no. Cheating boils down to intention.

Case:
My gf is having a small house gathering whereby she girl friend (A) is invited. A just started out a LDR with B. But A will be bringing another guy (C) which is currently going after A to the house gathering.

Do I:

1. state my thoughts on this- ie, tell my gf that this is not the kind of behavior (A bringing C due to the idea of intention behind it) that I would accept;
or
2. I should refrain from the house gathering to make my point clear and in a mature way to my gf that I do not one to be a part of this (its like akin to an accomplish to some extent).

thanks for your thoughts in advance.