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How do I try and get back with my ex even though it was ME who lied about doing other things with girls when I thought of it as when we were broken up... Its actually quite a long story to really get down to it, but knowing im the one who fucked it all up really sucks.
We broke up just over 2 weeks ago and have dated for about 2 years. I txtd her last week insisting we meet and talk for a little bit. She said she would think about it and get back to me (no response for about a week now). I was waiting it out for her to txt me trying to not look all needy and such and trying to make improvements in my own life because of everything.
Still would like to meet up with her. Should I txt her again or wait until however long it takes her to call or txt me?
And if we met i was going to give her a couple of her fav movies and maybe something else not too sure yet.
Whats your guy's opinion?
I feel your pain Bro, but the best answer is to move on with your life, she likely has, let her miss you for a while- regardless who fucked up.
Dedicate yourself to the good you deserve and desire for yourself. Give yourself peace of mind. You deserve to be happy.
Wait til you have cleared your head, all your going to be able to portray at this point is needy desperation.
How about if you wait six weeks. See if there is still interest, Tell her you were reminded of her while you were looking at someone on the street.
The biggest issue with a breakup is fear of being abandoned and avoidance.
There are plenty of other options for you.