I have been having an FWB relationship with this girl for about a month, and now whenever we hang out, she treats it like we are in an actual relationship. I.E. She holds my hand when we are walking or will kiss me randomly while walking.

Is this a sign of her falling for me?

Im new to the whole FWB thing.

Are you doing "date" things with her? If so, then you may be leading her on as much as she is trying to suck you in.

In the last few weeks I had one FB express feelings towards me that I do not have in return — and I simply told her I am not ready to be in a relationship or to be exclusive with someone etc etc — and that put things back into the proper frame, as she told me afterward she was OK with that and was busy with school etc herself and more or less wanted to know where we stood with each other.

Another girl I was banging got REALLY fucking weird on me out of nowhere so I stopped contacting her pretty coldly. Then she made up a reason to stop over at my place to hang out and pick up some things she had left over. I kept my distance from her on the couch, etc and didn't really kiss her the way she wanted me to when she left — and since that day I haven't heard a word from her. I am fine with that even though she was a fun chick to hang out with (no relationship potential though).

Either way — don't go out and do "date" things with girls you are only interested in for sex. I don't see anything wrong with going out and doing things together — but if you feel she is making unwanted advances toward you then keep that in mind. Stop going out together and only meet for sex at your place or hers. Put it in the frame that you want it to be and don't let her dictate the frame of whatever kind of relationship you want with her.

Thanks for the advice, that answered my question for sure!

Is she a FWB or a FB? They are two different things.

A FWB is someone that you can hang out with and do stuff but sex is on the table as well. You need to let her know that you are not ready for a relationship but enjoy her company.

A FB is for sex only...Meet up, get nekked, get wild, get lost!


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Good clarification!

I use FB and FWB interchangeably not really thinking about the difference between them.

Probably because most of the time when I have an FB or a FWB it ends up blurring the lines between the 2 anyway and according to those definitions could fall into either category.

You will rarely come across a women who does not get attached, women have a hard time separating sex from emotions! they can do it for a short time but after a while they build a bond with you and FB's are hard to keep long term!

My guess is she really likes you and feels connected to you but does not tell you in fear that you will be scared away.

I second that.

The whole "FB" / "FWB" situation is tough when one of you wants more and the other doesn't — yet wants to keep having sex.

I have been on both sides of that coin.

For me, I find that with one of these girls I will either start to become bored with her and not want to spend any more time with her, or will go the opposite and start to become "attached" to her to some degree. Girls probably go through the same thing but on a higher emotional level since they are more emotional to begin with.

FWB may be caching feelings. We used to be FWB with my current GF. Apparently after 1 month of FWB we couldn't handle it anymore. But every relationship is different. We are happy about the outcome now anyways.

http://chiefpua.blogspot.com/2011/01/ma ... r-fwb.html

That's an article I wrote about FWB relationships. Hope it helps