This is another post for uploading my situation of my another post. If you wanna read the whole thing is right here. So I lied to my ex girl friend about something, I broke her heart and she wants to take a break and break up last week, and it's been more than a week now, I messaged her the first time yesterday, made her laugh and had a good conversation at the beginning. She said I look nice on my Grad photos and asked how was my Grad.

So I decided to ask her to hang out, she ask why do I wanna go out, I said cause I wanna see her and she kinda agree to meet up. Then we talk about something else, conversation went dead, so I cut her off said I need to go, text me on the weekend and see which day is good for both of us.

And she said
"I'll see, depends how I feel as well", I ask her how she's feeling. She replied "Yeah, if I even want to see you in person. Not to sound too harsh here, but you reallllly damn well hurt me. Don't know if you could tell last time we talked."

She also said
"I really wish you kept that whole thing to yourself or we would of never been here. I thought I could trust you and everything. I was happy, I really was. thought you were pretty perfect in my eyes at the time. But then you broke my trust and kinda messed around with my confidence level. You know how many other guys who would love to be with me right now but I chose to give you the chance instead? Lot's of people were friggin' happy to see me go back to single, not giving a fuck I just got hurt by this. I feel like a toy. It's like this to be honest... you hurt me pretty bad, so should I give you another chance, or someone else. That's how I am thinking at the moment. And I have no clue what to do right now"

I told her I learnt my lesson and hope she will forgive me, and give me one last chance, I'm still that guy that she initially liked.

Then she said
"I really do hope you learnt your lesson, Ill talk to you tomorrow though. Im goign to bed, g'night"


I feel like there's nothing I can do now, and I'm so confused cause I know she still cares and have feelings for me, she likes all my status on facebook and shit. But why is she say something like that to make me feel bad and trying to hurt my feelings

Please I really need some advice right now, what you guys think, what should I do? I really want her back.

Dude... you hurt her. Take it like a man and take full responsibility for your actions. You can't expect her to just simply take you back without punishment. Why does she want to make you feel bad? Perhaps because you made her feel bad. Give her time. She may or may not come back, at this moment all you can do is wait.

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Man, when you fuck up, and so something weird, like stalking her, while lying about it, you man up and apologize, show her that you know it hurt her, you understand her, there is nothing wrong with that.

Yet don't make it a big issue, don't open it up again, or your apology will just lose "essence", you just show her that you're a good man again.

Relax, see how it goes, and don't over analyze or worry too much.

This is just advise.

Thanks for the advice guys, I know I fucked up and I apologized to her.

Right now I'm just gonna play the waiting game and see what happened.

I agree with everyone here that u hurt this girl real bad. But if I were you I wont lie down ile show her that I am the one that made her smile the one she chose despite everyone that said its a bad idea, man up and see if she will just go out for lunch or dinner and talk things out understand where she comes from.

Dude some girls we as PUA's see as bitches but that's the ones we love the most they challenge us daily and we love it. Relationships are not a game its something awesome between you and your girl. So stop being confused and get her back!

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