Me and my GF have been dating for 5 months now, our sex life is going the right direction NOW. It used to be different like she told me she is very insecure about herself and we started having sex after 1 month or something but i had some erection problems (performance anxiety most likely) so i think this added to her insecureness (omg he cant get it up am i ugly?)

So after this she denied me sex and said she wasn't in the mood, i called her out on it and she said she was just super insecure about the whole thing, anyway we talked and worked it out and the next time(s) i saw her we didn't have much time but i made her orgasm twice orally (what she told me anyways)

Thing is whenever i am with her or text her she makes this comments about her self like ''I am fat'' translated into other stuff... For example:

Me: ''Hey lets go swim sometime!''
Her: ''Ye sure, after i lose some weight!''

(btw, no one would consider her fat, she is the only one that thinks that.. and her mom according to her.. and i really love her body)

Or when we are together and she looks into the mirror ''omg my hair'' or ''i look bad how can you still be with me''

It was not annoying the first couple weeks/months but now at the 5 month mark im really starting to get annoyed by it, i used to reply in a sarcastic way like ''ye i think im going to leave u'' and changed the subject, but she keeps doing it everytime i see her all the time, also when we text message she says stuff like that.

Now the last month i just ignored it all together when she said something like that in hoping that she would get the point, but nope, she is still making comments and saying stuff like that.. She also asked me how i would feel if she would get a boob job.. (she's 17.. im 19)

Im not quiet sure where to go with this..

My girlfriend was the same way and I think that's why I lost feelings for her. I'm single now (y). Honestly, just teach her what PUA teaches you. Confidence is the key, and it's most attractive trait in a girl. Explain to her that if she thinks negative of herself, so will others sooner or later. That it's like an illusion. Tell her you think she's perfect but you find it unattractive how she doesn't embrace her beauty, etc. I don't know bruh, eventually my confidence and personality rubbed off on my girlfriend (that's what I wanted, from the beginning of the relationship, I knew the the meaning of this relationship for me was to influence her into a better person and completely change her personality) She's confident now, she's no longer shy, she's more social, and honestly, I feel accomplished and better about myself. I know, this was a bit off topic but I felt like expressing my feelings hehe