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| givemethat | PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 4:04 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Mar 21, 2012 7:24 pm Posts: 36 | | Hi there,
GF and i are in argue and i've been freezing her for several days now.
she just texted me : ' Can you let me know if you have a new girlfriend ? you would really do me a favour if you would tell me... '
what does she try to say ? _________________ you can't ALWAYS get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you'll get what you NEED.
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| PUAzilla | PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 5:00 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Tue Oct 25, 2011 4:40 pm Posts: 237 | | This is a bit of an odd one.
I would something link 'no, you're my girlfriend?...'
I would clear it up pretty quickly.
Just because you're freezing her out it doesn't mean that she's not your girlfriend.
You don't want her to think it's over otherwise she might begin to move on.
Wow this is a weird one.
Pretty sure it's not a shit test but I could be wrong.
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| Johndigwood120 | PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 12:20 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 25, 2012 2:57 pm Posts: 189 | | I don't want to give too much advice since i am also relatively new to this but
You say you have been freezing her out serveral days, i think normally 1 or 2 days is enough, especially if she's not used to you punishing her bad behaviour.
I think she should get the point now and you should stop the freeze out
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| RetiredRodeo | PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2012 3:27 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:42 pm Posts: 1251 | | When I'm in a relationship (rarely), I don't actively try to run game. I sure as hell don't shut them out.
If the relationship means something - if it has a future - work it out, find out what she needs that you're not giving her - and if they don't violate your moral code - fulfill them. If she's done something wrong to you - forgive her and move on.
If you can't, or it's not important enough - end it now, because then you're just slow dancing in a burning room. Life's too short to live pissed off. _________________ Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.
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| Discipline | PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:58 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Feb 09, 2011 4:44 pm Posts: 35 | | Don't freeze her out after that last message or she might lose attraction. Stay dominant and confident though. She thinks you have a new girlfriend, so figure out what she is missing in the relationship and whether you want to give that to her or not. That text isn't a shit test, so just answer it truthfully!
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| Chinopants | PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 2:46 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Oct 07, 2011 1:33 am Posts: 323 Location: Durham NC | | Not sure 100% of your situation but I would Ask why she would care and if she wants to be my girl friend why she would make a good one. Have her justifie and make her the one chasing. Man the fuck up on this and don't puss out or show weakness. This sounds like a shit test. Most of the time girls don't even know they are doing shit test but she sounds like she is looking for a real man answer to show maturation and some balls. _________________ Why guys and girls don't mesh.
"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1
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