A little background about me and my gf: we are really similar, have almost same personality, and also both being Libras. I don't like to show girls that i am really in love with them because of my ego, i feel that if i do it, i show weakness and she is gonna consider that she got me. Same thing is with her, she has her own ego, likes to play hard to get and doesn't tell me how much she loves me, so i kinda feel that i want to show her when she shows me
(kinda pathetic if u think about it).
The point is that i love this girl to death, but i don't know how to show her in a proper way without coming off as needy or something like that. For like 2 months i always had this thing in my mind because if she did not show me who much she loves me she just uses me or something like that, which made me forget the most important rule. If i want her to love me i have to get her attracted to me, not just expect her to be, while i am just pissed at her for not showing shit. I even got to the point where i said fuck this i can't take it anymore i'm don't with this crap, but somehow before saying hey baby i want to break up with u, something changed me, and became a different person that night. I started to talk about random stuff with her, be funny and playful, which changed her attitude from being bored to hang out with me, to be happy to be around me (like 180* turn). After that night for like 2 weeks everything is the way i want with her, but i would like to show how how much i really love her, and come off as "hes the guy of my dreams" instead of "ha i got this loser wrapped around my finger".