Hey,

I just recently got a girlfriend. Ive been seeing this girl for 3 weeks and I think she is amazing thus far. Athletic, smart, cute, funny, a virgin, christian. She isn't a whole christian christian girl, she drinks and she will have sex when she finds the right guy.

She is really a great girl, does things which I like, crack jokes. But sometimes she doesn't say much, if I say something cute she will just smile. Because sometimes she says to me like "oh will you break my heart"... she had a bad boyfriend before, I feel like I have to really have to show her I care a lot, which I feel like she then has control. I dont know why I open up to her a lot and say cute things to her a lot when before I never said feelings to a girl.

The main thing of this is... I feel like the relationship after three weeks is loosing its excitement, interest....
How do I keep the relationship interesting for her, excited, mysterious, her wanting to have more and more
Is it okay to not text for a whole day? But then I wonder what she is up to, I dont want to play games... but I mean I want to have control and have her always wanting to see me

finally, she is a virgin. Last night she told me, "what does the bible say", and I was like sex till wedding, and she was like yes, but I mean, i just want to find the right guy then it will be okay. Basically fall in love, the other night... She was on top of me, kissing... and my hand slowly went down her back, near her ass, and she was like "heyy get your hands out of there"..... How on earth am I going to speed this up? I mean, I like sex.

last night i had sex with my girlfriend, woke up this morning had sex with my girlfriend, hell this evening might even tell her i want a bj.
Can you do that^ with your girlfriend? No

Would you like to do that with your girlfriend? Yes

My advice to you Dump Her ASAP find another women who doen't have her problems before you become too attached. Bible thumping girls like that are a waste of time.

Young girls like that who think they can have relationship with a guy a not put out and expect them the stick around and not cheat on them are idiots.

If you stick around with this girl you are violating your own values because you want sex from your girlfriend. At the moment you're not having sex because she doesn't want you're choosing to follow her rules and values that makes you weak.

What you are right now is a friend with minimal benefits.

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Salut

To begin with, i think you should give her some time to get over her past issues and experiences with her ex...If i were you, i would strongly start building more and more comfort with seduction of course...I suggest Gambler's stealth seduction.

Also regarding speeding things up, again you should build comfort with seducing her, when you do that i guarantee you she will feel safe...In other words be the man of her dreams and make her feel safe a the same time.

"Should i text her everyday for the whole day"....."How do I keep the relationship interesting for her, excited, mysterious, her wanting to have more and more" --> Simply seduce and give it time

Cheers,
Jay D

And i agree with Reo, if it's not going anywhere and she's giving you hard time, Dumb before you get attached!

Thanks Lads,

No I am not going to dump her ass... I like her. She is different and witty. I have the right girl, the only problem is the physical aspect of things and thats why I am here right now to get some advice on how to fix it.


1) I feel like the relationship is moving too quick as well. After three weeks we are already saying "I trust you with my life, I dont want to hurt you, all that jazz"...
I want her to wonder what I am up to and so on. Do you guys have any advice on this. She is going out tonight, I feel like I might not text her once while she is out? But that could easily back fire



Also, the ladder of seduction, I tried that... last night was the first attempt, i have gone through the first faces, kiss on cheek, thigh stroking, whispering in ear even nibling it, as soon as my hand gets anywhere near her ass, lower stomach, BAM... pushed away



I feel like if I get her craving me (wondering where i am what im doing) I can then move that forward

Basically, how do i keep her interested

Dump her. Honestly. You will come back here in a few weeks or months and say you guys were right.

Sorry. She's a waste of time.