[[I deleted this from the Routines section as I don't think it was the proper section]]
So I was out clubbing last week (suited up) and I f-closed this chick on a rebound, next night I was out with my mate at a club (she said there was going and was telling me about a gig on there, I said I’d come)

I got there she was kissing and kino'ing a baldy scumbag, I said nothing, had my good night and fun (didn't emote, went for a 13km rage run after the club though, about 4:30am )

Yesterday I text her "not looking for drama or anything, but do you want to hook up again?"
She says "Hey you picked the worst time ever to text I’ll get back to you later"
I say "I understand" and no contact since then
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I'm looking to convert this chick to be a fuck buddy, something mutually beneficial and convenient as she lives close by. Can someone give me a way to proceed via text so I don't come across tenacious or needy but will clearly show my intention of NSA

I'm of the opinion that I should open with "sorry about the bad timing the other day, I figured since we have the good rapport we could have some on tap fun chuck us a text next time you’re out x" and then completely freeze out until she contacts or we meet again

My nonPUA AFC mate thinks it will go like this (his words): "sorry about the bad timing the other day! hope I didn’t get you into trouble!" keep it short, she will wb, saying "oh its ok no worries" then you will say ah cool, well I just had good fun the last night! Thought if you’re ever up for a rebound again feel free to give me a text!
shell say something "hahahha arnt you so confident or something cocky"


Any thoughts?

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Silence is a best friend that never betrays

Don't directly verbalize your desire to have NSA hook ups with this girl. You want to avoid having any kind of "define the relationship" type talks. Your actions will speak way louder than words. I would suggest following the FB rules discussed here: drama-free-relationships-2-early-framin ... 25073.html

If anything, you can sprinkle your conversation with stories from dates you've been on recently to subtly imply you're seeing other people.

EDIT: Also, only text her to set a meet-up time and place. Never rely on a girl to set up a time to hang out (i.e. it's a poor plan to wait for her to text you the next time she's out).

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html