So last night I went out and met up with my girl friend... we were dancing with each other and her flat mates for quite a bit and it was all really good.

Then.... her fucking lesbian girl friend is texting her (again when we are out crying)

so the nice friend my gf is she goes and meets her, and then ditches me for her crying friend the rest of the night to try and cheer her up. (Now this girl fancies my girl friend)

Anyway... I walk home with my gf's flat mate while she comfits her lesa friend... and then i text her saying... "are you sleeping at mine tonight?"

no text for 40+ mins so i text back saying "forget about it!"

Then she text back saying am i annoyed? whats up etc...? so i kinda lost it... and then she said she was upset so probs just going to go to bed.

[In my mind] I thought for some reason that she was ditching me as she was ok before and staying at her lesbian friends or something, so i went to her appartment after she didnt reply, and after waiting for ages she turns up, and id sent her a text saying that i was fucking pissed off with her.

When i got there she was crying and said to me "what the fuck have i done"... so i explained that i was waiting around all night for her as she just ditched me for her lesa friend :/ , and she said like sorry, and that she was crying because of some issues at home home.... and then she didnt want me to stay with her because she was crying....

I just dont know what to do, this is the second time her fucking lesbian friend has done this, and she goes off to comfort her then ends up upset herself :S. And i just get in my mind that shes going for a lesbo fuck :/

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Turns out my gf didnt text back as her phone is actually fucked, and wudnt answer calls. Do you think i pushed her away a bit too much last night? It was liturally perfect earlier on in the evening, she was all over me and it was how it should be.

I would really appreciate some advice on how i should act upon it

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After 40 minutes of non response. I would go sleep.

The next day would wait for her to initate contact and tell her that was she disrepct.

But to be honest why so needy with this girl?

If was the other way around would she be upset?

Why are you so insecure with her lesb friend, are you afraid that she cheated?

Do you trust her?

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

ye, you are right and i know it,,, i kinda just became a mess. And I do trust her, but this lesbian is just so manipulative you know... And i became a blubbering mess of desperation.

I text her a little while ago with a ":p",

I was looking forward to a shag and cuddle you know, and was just really pissed off. But how can I act upon this though you know?

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How about you try to punish her the oldfashioned-take-your-attention-away way?

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

You are showing too her too much insecurities and desperation, as you can imagine that is not good.

Stop being jealous about her lesbian friend.

If you trust her... I dont see the problem

Shag and Cuddle? You will have other days to shag her and cuddle. You really need to find other things to focus your attention if one night you go berserk.

I really dont know if its a shit test or not it could have been a totatly innocent mistake by her part, but you have blow out of proportion by entering in her game instead of ignoring the game.

Let her come to you ,and act normal. But you need to find something better to do, put your focus elsewhere too. As I told you i dont know if her part was innocent or just to mind fucking you but you need to start acting accordingly to this.

I suggest you read this.

the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon-vt95776.html

how-to-handle-shit-tests-in-relationships-vt124540.html

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I'm pretty sure its innocent on her part tbh. she doesnt play games, however she is the type of girl who is not very suggestive, she follows the crowd more you know, which i dont mind, just that it would be nice if she took a little bit of control over her actions... like im the one always asking her out, or asking her if she wants to hang out. And she always wants sex, but she will never initiate it, she will just maybe hint.

But anyway, she just text me saying...

:p, sorry about last night xx

she was in a bit of a state...

you reckon i should just text her back saying something like...

its alright hun, hope youve cheered up now cos i dont want a moody gf! ..

or something like that? Or do you think i should go and talk to her or what? confusing.

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or, hope youve cheered up now! the sad face doesnt suit you!

i dunno, sometthing light hearted?

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How about, you can make it up to me tonight Glad you're feeling better.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Thats being a bit needy though ^^^ ? and i think she will spend time with her flat mate tonight as she gets back today and she hasnt seen her for a few weeks.

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Well I don't know, she's your gf, you know better. If you think it would sound needy coming out of your mouth/cellphone then it probably will. Do you think if you showed more interest in her it would turn her off? I guess you know what you should write and the way you two communicate so just follow your intuition.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Or just, you'll make it up to me some other time Glad you're ok babe.
That's not needy, or it is?

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

i said

"il be honest with ya, it wasn't the best iv seen you, but... i suppose i can forgive you... if you can forgive me 2? x :p

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I hope you didnt sendthis.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

whats wrong with that? she didnt like me seeing her in that state, so she will know i was joking ^^, you reckon its bad? i know she feels really bad about what happens

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