Whats right here someone let me know.

Girl number 1 is my ex girlfriend who recently came back into the picture as just a fuck buddy.

Girl number 2 is this girl who is very great as far as everything except sex. So we go out. We have had a couple of talks about my thoughts on relationships. She could be a relationship type of girl. I just dont want one right now in my life. So should I tell her about sex with my ex girl? She is prob suspect of girl number 1. But she is also really cool about my privite time. I feel that I dont have to tell her anything...

Girl number 2 has a neat vibe. I dig her style a lot. Girl number 1 fucks like a pro.

Here is a thing. Girl number 2 said that I could tell her I wanted a open relationship. I did not say that. I feel if I do tell her, it gives her the power to find some other guy, before I get a couple more girls on me. So she also says other things that catch my eye. Like, "I only want to be with one man." and also, "If we are open, then I will start looking for someone better." So I can be honest and tell her I am fucking around. Or I can just keep playing it off like there is no one else, and she will keep this vibe I enjoy so much. Its a moral decision.. I do not know the correct way to go about this. Some advice please from a man who deals with girls as more then friends. Or advice from a man who does not look for relationships but knows how to keep a women happy enough to hang around him. That would be great.

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This is what's going to happen here. She's going to find out someway that your banging another girl. She's going to leave you and then the next post we're going to see will be titled "How to get the perfect girl back"

If you don't want a relationship right now then that settles that. Keep nailing both of them and when/if she finds out you've lost nothing.

BUT if girl #2 is as cool as you say and you two actually fit well together it might not be worth it. I can't believe I'm saying this but sex isn't everything. You ever thought of teaching her how to take it like a pro? I mean if you work with her a bit and she's open to learning then you can make her better.

Your ex is your ex for a reason. The min another guy jumps in the picture she's gone... and so is your fun.

No one can tell you what to do. What would I do? I just teach #2 how to bang. Solves your problem.

Be discreet, but don't promise monogamy to girl #2. You can and should imply that you are sleeping with other people, but don't throw it in her face or give too many details. What you do on your own time is your business, not hers. Based on her conflicting comments, it sounds as if telling girl #2 about girl #1 is just asking for drama.

-Wolf

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I should tell her, you guys are right.

I need to give up the power struggle right here. It is too much to deal with in my head. I get hella jealousy, guilty feelings because I do not address this. I am not trusting people who are close to me.

Its way hard to deal. I am gunna come clean with her.

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Okay, or just do the opposite of what I told you to do. That's cool too.

EDIT: Well at least report back and tell us how it goes. Should be entertaining.

-Wolf

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Ok did not mean to leave you hanging.

I got into a relationship with girl number 2 the one I like.

Girl number one I try to not think of.

I am always having to think around her. I keep my mind active. I did lie when she asked if I have been with anyone else. At that time though I saw myself as single... So I have nothing here I can not deal with. I will just act as if. From here on out.

She really enjoys my company. If I tell the truth now.. I fuck this one up.

She is my girlfriend. I feel like I am in the drivers seat with her too. It is a nice feeling. See my other post that is more popular about the relationship if your interested in my current girlfriend.. haha no pun.

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Wow you should have thrown the two posts together. It would have made for an entertaining thread.

Haha, I like that

I dont know how to do that now. I guess I will add the link to this post on the other one. I know it is part of one story. I was trying to get as much advice as possible on this. I will do that. Good idea, concerning the evolution of me and girl #2

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