So an ex of mine that fucked my friend while we were on a break she suggested got back in contact today.

She told me she had just got married, to a guy she hardly know. She said she is having second thoughts.

This was followed by her suggesting she should have married me instead. Also asking me to keep a space in my head for her, that she always loved me etc etc and will continue to do so.

I was pretty dry about the whole thing but polite. She didnt appear really to be trying to get back with me, not that I want to but I cant really understand why she would be motivated to do such a thing after she was so shitty to me?

Oh my god.

No offence mate, but she's acting completely stupid and immature.

Never respond to her anymore. Doing so equals a lot of shit in the future. And you don't want that, do you?

Why she does it?

Clearly she isn't fully happy in her current relationship (marriage? lol) and needs somebody to complain too.

If you don't have feelings anymore for her, you shouldn't care and ignore her completely.
If you do have feelings for her, you should ignore her even more.


Staying in touch with exes = trouble.

LOL cut the thread and move on. There's absolutely nothing you should do.

You are her emotional tampon.

Sorry dude, but she knows you are a nice guy and will only say nice positive things to her which is what she needs right now. Does she want sex from you? Not in the slightest... at this point.

Listen to the boys. Complete ignore, this MAY get her overies clanging again. Also, the perfect time for you to be with other women.

This girl is cancer. She wants you now, so extract as much satisfaction from that as you like before you cut her out of your life. But do not fuck her. I'm telling you: this is the kind of girl that excels at sabotaging birth control.

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