So me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months now and its had its ups and downs like every relationship but we've been quite good.

However in the passed month or so we've not said 'love you' or anything to each other and she just seems to treat me like every other person now and dont really bother with me as much as she used to? Dont even feel like she wants to be with me anymore.

She always used to moan to people that i didn't treat her right ( i was a bit of a cunt ) but now i do all the time and always taking her out when i get time etc..


Any answers,information or how to change this would be a great help thanks!

thanks

you changed.

she loved "the cunt".

now you are "mr. nice guy"

good luck with that.

sleep with her friends and smack her around.

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that made me lol ...bit extreme but hes right ... not about the abuse thing god no but ye be abit less nice and abit more bad boy

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Mack is correct. What he means is that you have stopped being the man of the relationship, and now you are a needy puppy dog for whom she has no respect.

If you want to understand what is happening to your relationship, then I suggest you read what I have posted in these threads:
gf-always-assuming-stuff-vt118043.html
big-problem-with-my-girlfriend-vt117832.html
easiest-way-to-save-a-dying-relationship-vt94002.html

She˙s lost interest of you.. Everything has become a routine.. That˙s what i think, but every relationship is a story for itself, so..
But consider about that.. Don˙t be mr nice guy, try to remember what attracted her to you when you met, spice up your relationship and so on..

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