well, not much to say about it...I really like this girl, we've been friends for a while (met in college) and she's a part of my main social circle so I was trying to let her know i liked her without being to obvious cause I was afraid of ruining everything, including our friendship. So I was talking with some friends after class and we were setting up a dinner together and when my friend asked if she was coming, she said she was going to have dinner with some guy. I felt myself sinking so, so deep! Then my friend said something like "AGAIN! WOW you're almost a couple!" and she just shrug...I know that maybe this situation is helpless but I'm really sad right now and I just wanted to open up to someone

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Aspiring PUA

weve all been there man.

it hurts, but at least you are in the right place.

before coming onto this forum, i had been in a LONG dry spell.

some of the dudes on here have sound advice, that really helps, i can attest to that

good luck in the future

E is right...at some point…we have all be there.

Don’t get to down on yourself. When you have an interest in someone that is in your social circle…there is a super fine line.

You almost always want to be certain that the feelings are mutual before taking that first step…otherwise, it will make for some real awkward situations and she may not want to hang out…thus ruining the circle and there is the other part…it works…but just for a while…one or both of you may realize, there was attraction…but it just isn’t working out…we won’t add specifics…either way, the courtship is ruined and to prevent any awkwardness, one or the other is left to choose whether they want to come out and be part of the group or just find other friends all together.

Not to say it couldn’t work out…they are just real tricky…not to mention other friends becoming upset for you taking that chance and then everyone losing that friend in general.

Perhaps none of this helps…may be it does. Either way…you still have a chance at being her friend, getting to know her…if things don’t work out between that guy and her…then put on your leather chaps and get on the bull…um, put pants on under them chaps though! Good luck!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

like the guys above.. we've all been there and it sucks hardcore. You feel like someone just sucked the life out of you, but its necessary man if you wanna find another girl.

hi. just to be clear, I've never actually been there. Your best bet is to move along and stop caring about this bitch. You obviously didn't act when/if you had your chance. Move along and make sure it doesn't happen again. In a couple of days you'll be over her. Just picture her having sex with this guy.

If you keep thinking and planning how to make her yours, and keep suffering each time you hear/see her with another dude then your future doesn't sound bright.
First of all get some material on inner game so that you don't see women above you and most important of all you don't see a specific girl above all other girls on this planet.
When you put too much importance on a single girl you either mess up and then suffer or will be lonely for a long time.
Do yourself a favor, leave this girl and find yourself others, start dating and stop caring.

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Hi............
Really topic is very nice.
Broke heart is not good.I am very sincere with my friends.
I love my fellows and friends.

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