AFCToTheMax, R.C and In$tinct, thanks for the feedback

I appreciate your help and I do consider every single word you guys say, ur advice is gold.
I understand that you guys saw a lot of OP and guys here mess their relationships by invading their girlfriend's privacy.

I still think I did a good move by quickly checking her stuff. My mind is clear, I'm much more secured and confident, and she can go on with her busy social schedule (like neo87 suggested). We spent the last four nights together, state of relationship is at its best.

i.e She told me she "bumped" into another of her (random) guy friends yesterday, she had lunch with him and they talked. The dude overdid in the afternoon and texted her way too much, she told me how it happened and we had a good laugh before going to bed. basically she just likes friendly contact, being around people, and it's very easy for her to get this king of attention with her looks and personnality. Now that I understand that, it's way easier for me to have a healthy relationship with an HB10 very independent and outgoing girlfriend.

It's important to understand that I wasn't used (getting better) to have an HB10 girlfriend with tons of orbiters and random guys around her. It's getting better with time, mainly thanks to you guys. I would probably not have passed the dating step with this girl if I hadn't read and studied PUA material.

With me acting alpha again and showing no insecurities or jealousy, her behaviour is changing for the best. "I miss you" texts (this is new), making out and poking in the car and other random places, and she even asked before going out to lunch with random guy if I was okay with it (she never did that before). I said smtg like "yeah sure sweetie, u dont have to ask! have fun, we'll meet later" in a very cool mood, and I meant it.

She also started working full time and it slowed her a lot in her social life. Instead of going out 3-4 times, it will probably go down to around once a week. Random dudes and orbiters are still around of course, but there's fewer opportunities for them to hit on her and make a move.

Thanks for all the feedback, always very helpful
Cheers

Dude I'm glad ur happy with this girl. Just make a note that you acted out of insecurity by checking her stuff and work on your self esteem in the future. That way you can keep the girl. And try resisting the urge of doing this again.