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Hi friends,
I'm dating since a couple of months with this girl, I think were getting on pretty well. The problem is that her ex boyfriend is calling, messaging her all the time, he wants to get back together.
I talked with her a bit, she doesn't talk very easily about it, and what I understood is that she has told him that she is sleeping with me, but hasn't told him that we are together and her feelings about me (she says she loves me). She said she wants to keep him as a friend, cause they were together for 5 years and doesn't want to make him more sad than what he is.
I advised her to tell him the truth, but I don't know what they are talking about all the time.
They have also made an appointment to see each other and talk, I don't feel insecure or anything, if she wants to go she can go. But this situation is slowly getting on my nerves, what I am thinking is that she could be lying to be or will do something stupid in the future putting me in a difficult situation.
Any suggestions how to deal with it?
Next her.
Right now I am on the other end of this situation. I split with my fiancee because she had a one night stand with my roommate when she was blackout. She tried everything to win me back, but there was no way in hell I was going to sit on my hands for her after what she did. Long story short, I started playing, things got messy, and one night she walked in on me with another woman.
She gets a new girl, I get a new girl.
Fast forward to now. She started seeing a new guy, but drunk dialed me one night. I saw my opening and kept the connection open. One thing lead to another and we've slept together three times. She does not want to lose the new guy she is seeing and I do not want to be tied to her (seriously not marriage material) so I just talked her into having an affair ("lets keep our private lives private"). Poor sap has no idea…sounds a lot like you actually. Do not be a push over, if this guy is smooth he'll play her.
CHAT