This is like watching that TV show cheaters

Great TV show where suspected cheaters are put under surveillance and exposed to their significant other.

Lots of angry confrontations and love triangles.

It's hilarious! The bf caught his girl while giving a blowjob to some poor Bro. Unsuspecting Bro gets his ass beat. Camera crew busts it up.

Jerry Springer Maybe?

Montel?

All good shit.

Look obviously she will fuck you again. If your not afraid of another confrontation from the bf. Fuck her till the fuckin runs dry. Stop over thinking it and roll with the fun.

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I agree with the above if you want to bang her keep doing it. However judging from your posts you want more than just a roll in the hay. She has clearly made a choice and she wants to be with her boyfriend. You can say its because the boyfriend will cause physical harm etc. but thats just trying to justify her behavior. As far as the texts go.....they are texts, don't really mean much. Like others have said, you are the side guy and will be, if your ok with this continue, if not cut contact. GL
PS this is the best thread running, please keep it updated!

I would not say old love but out of guilt, pitty, confusion, fear of the unknown. Let me tell you a story, i was with a married girl that i picked up at a club and i fucked in my car.... Her marriage was pretty much over they were roomates. But she kept in the marriage out of OBLIGATION, no clear path on what to do. Unlike you, i was not really interested in her other than sex. I also, told her that and encourage her to stay in her marriage... So she went psycho over me, obsessed, i try numerous time to get rid of her. Finally, we became really good friends, i told her look if you are misserable in the marriage and you took a bite of the forbidden apple, then either make it work or break up. She stay about 3 years misserable with the dude, but cheating on the side, with me and others. Then they finally broke up, now i taught her to date multiple guys and pick the best. She is a fucking machine (fucks multiple guys at the same time, but looking for a bf), she is also now my best friend(but i do not fuck her at all, even though i let her suck my dick now and then). But i like her friendship. My point is she is not into the dude, she just feel obligated for ___________ reasons to be with him, it will eventually end. The way to play this for the 50th time is to be normal NO OUTCOME DEPENDENT, no needy, and you are doing ok. Just work on keep in it secret tell her to get app lock (it is an app), tell her to get a free(google voice number) and just communicate you and (your google number) via google voice. When you met do not met at her place or your place, meet at a neutral place. Carry some type of weapon just in case. I would reach out to her bf via facebook and say dude i am out(even if is bs) in a way to assure him, nothing is going on(bs), and telling him i deserve that beating i got, i am sorry, i had no idea, blah blah blah... The difference of your situation and mine, is that i never wanted the married woman to be with me just as one of my fuck buddies...

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Just keep doing what you have been doing. Keep banging her, and be the alpha in her life. You have a serious advantage over this guy in that you are supposedly a PUA- use it.

You know what you need to do. Play cool, you can even bang other girls, which will probably help you not think about her as much. You have to live your life, and you shouldn't just wait around for her to act or not act. See other women in the meantime, and maybe she will come around.

I am currently in a similar boat as you, I am waiting out a relationship, but I am still going to have my fun.

My reply:

I know what situation you are in. It’s tough and you must be going through a lot, know that you are alone in this situation because I’m right here with you. In my reply I am not going to even mention him or even you and him as a couple – for you two can do as you please and you know my opinion.
The past two months have potentially been the best of my life (that’s saying a lot as I have done a lot of things and been in a lot of places in my life), and I owe it all to you. I fell in love with a girl, but I know she is about to turn into a mature woman, for what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. If life was a straight line with no surprises, mistakes, or ups and downs, it wouldn’t be entertaining at all so embrace the challenge and know that you will get through this, we both will together as we have always done.
I’m going to be honest with you as always, when I read what you say, I have the biggest smile on my face and then I look at the outcome, I look at my side and you’re not there. I am not one to force or insist although I do admit with you this is the first time in my life I got excited about the things to come and pushed a bit more than I normally would. For me I feel like you are with him out of fear, out of obligation, pity for him, and guilt when we both know a relationship should be fueled by passion, love, chemistry, desire and everything we have and will continue to develop.
I never told you this but, you want to know the first time I saw you I thought; this girl is absolutely beautiful. You had tight blue jean short shorts on and a black top and I asked if I could sit next to you. Next week I saw you in class and spoke to you on the skytrain face to face and I knew that that face that blew me away… was her second best asset.

I don't want to end this, or close it or cut off contact. I do want to be the guy and keep it low key and keep her invested. I think i did that?

I should mention this, i go on exhcange to europe in 2 weeks for four months. I know, I was thinking about staying for this girl (how fucked is that) but yeah. Is it a good thing that I am going?

Does this change the way I play it and when I am on exchange do i maintain in contact?

OP, let me chime in bro. You are getting some solid advice in this thread. But one piece of advice that you haven't gotten, is that you may want to chill unless you want to get that ass whooped or worse. I'm not trying to scare you, but just trying to drop knowledge on you.

When you said the BF punched you a lot, it sounds like you caught a beat down. And he's already threatened to put you to rest. Since, you haven't had an encounter with him again let me share something with you.

I met a HB9. Was at her house, JUST ON HER COUCH. Her "Ex-BF" (Guess he didn't think so) walks into the house (the front door was open...screen door was closed). He just stands there. Looks at me, looks at her. Then looks back at me. And says, "Oh, you're just going to sit there?" He nods, walks out the house. She tells me I should leave...OUT THE BACK. I concur & proceed to do that. And as I'm cutting through the neighbors back yard, I hear a gun cock.

Needless to say, I don't fuck with women in relationships. Why, I had a bad experience. I'm just sharing that with you, so that you wake up to what risk you run. No need to be with women in relationships...there are plenty who aren't.

Hope this helps you bro.

I honestly hope you didn't send this, I know that is what you felt but by sending it she will think that she can continue seeing her boyfriend and if that doesn't work, well then you will always be there to help pick up the pieces. Honestly hope it works out for you and make sure you continue to update! By far best thread going!

Have not sent it yet. I feel obligated to reply something cute because of the length of hers.

What about this :

I know what situation you are in. It’s tough and you must be going through a lot, know that you are not alone in this situation because I’m right here with you. You know, our focus is on us, and what happens between us, because anything else just isn't fair, ya know?

The past two months have potentially been the best of my life (that’s saying a lot as I have done a lot of things and been in a lot of places in my life), and I owe it all to you. I fell in love with a girl, but I know she is about to turn into a mature woman, for what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. If life was a straight line with no surprises, mistakes, or ups and downs, it wouldn’t be entertaining at all so embrace the challenge and know that you will get through this, we both will together as we have always done.

I’m going to be honest with you as always, when I read what you say, I have the biggest smile on my face and then I look at the outcome, I look at my side and you’re not there. I am not one to force or insist although I do admit with you this is the first time in my life I got excited about the things to come and pushed a bit more than I normally would. For me I feel like you are with him out of fear, out of obligation, pity for him, and guilt when we both know a relationship should be fueled by passion, love, chemistry, desire and everything we have and will continue to develop.

I never told you this but, you want to know the first time I saw you I thought; this girl is absolutely beautiful. You had tight blue jean short shorts on and a black top and I asked if I could sit next to you. Next week I saw you in class and spoke to you on the skytrain face to face and I knew that that face that blew me away was her second best asset.

Fucking shitting myself.

The thing is he wants me dead either way. There is no way I can talk to him and say dude it wasn't what you think it is.

Well again, don't get scared by my story. Just know your risk. This way you can "Carpe Diem" my friend. Don't be afraid to die...ESPECIALLY for love. That's what you're going thru. Love makes you stupid. You're no longer a PUA at this point...Skills already told you, you have ONEITIS. So, now just "Carpe Diem"!

The thing is to the reply above. She made her choice, she choose him, out of fear and all that shit.

It is my job to be low key and not needy, my reply i dont think was needy it just makes her smile and continues what we have. I just have to be extra careful with her until I leave.

Is this good planning?

And what about when I do leave, how to play it?

You two idiots are really fucking up her life. The boyfriend in one corner threatening to do all sorts to her if she doesn't stay with him and you, all needy and love struck in the other corner. If she really loved you she'd be with you. Who the hell cares what her stupid, bullying boyfriend does? Why don't you just macho your way into her house and bring her to where you live for good, contact the police and make sure they're there when she gets the rest of her stuff and stick a restraining order on the jealous cunt.

So close to doing that.

She just came over, she told me that she was with him last night and he was asking her a lot of questions about me and she says its so hard to lie. She said he "wants to kill you, honestly".

When she said that i really got scared, something dropped inside of me.

I realized fuck, i cant see this girl, i acted as if i wasn't phased. She started looking at me saying "you are so attractive i like you so much", started taking off my clothes and i was like fuck. I actually zoned out for a second, i asked a bit about him (dont give a fuck if it not alpha), i said and youre okay with being with a dude who wants to kill me. She said well he probably wont find you, (except we have fucking class together this week), i said will he be there, she said probably. Got even more scared, she started taking off her clothes, i realized fuck what the fuck is going on. I was so quiet and she was starting to say "why arent you saying anything to me". I had sex with her right then cuz she got me hard in the moment but my head was somewhere els,e which made her even more into me. Now im shitting myself. I know some of you are laughing or like wtf, this guy deserves to die.

But how should I handle this guy, i was thinking of messaging him, telling him i know his name and i have warned the police if he touches me he is gone to jail or if anyone does. I said to her i might message him, she said no dont ever.

I didnt send her that message but she said why didnt u write one, i said i did write a lil one, she said send it to me now (she is going to dinner with him and his parents). I said no maybe tomorrow, she said okay good call.

She isn't being smart, not deleting my texts or some shit and its like i feel like she is maybe wanting to get caught again i dont know how fucked that is. The guy is phycho and im scared.

If you're scared of that dude (I would be too) I would call the police and say:

"I can't give you my name, but I heard that two kids were going to fight on [day of class] at [time of class] outside of building [building of class]."

This way cops will be swarming all over the building expecting people to fight and if that dude is there 2 possible (favorable) outcomes can occur:

1) He attacks you and is promptly arrested.
2) He doesn't attack you.

P.S. Don't warn him. Wouldn't it be awesome if he got arrested?

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