A relationship that you have to compromise your beliefs for isnt a healthy relationship period. While you might not share this girl's beliefs, this is obviously a deep conviction that she has. If you're willing to overlook that just so you can lay her, that's pretty messed up man. Find someone else. Don't be one of those dudes that ruin the good ones.

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Gentleman,

Sorry for my absence. It was exam time and I was away from the PC. So there has been some updates.. No, I Have not had sex with her.

We are now in a relationship on facebook (may be a huge mistake now but at the time I was doing anything I can to move things forward and establish herself comfortable around me).....

I have grown to really like her. She is one of the coolest girls I have ever been around. And she is scared of loosing me, I have control, if I dont text, she freaks.

I guess not much progress has been made, except emotionally I like her more. I have dry humped her several times. Sometimes she lets me put my hand down her pants on her butt and other times she asks me to take my hand off. I get super annoyed and leave her, just leave the house. I know, maybe bad. But she has such a super fine body that all I can think about is fucking it. I want to move things forward with her and im running out of ideas.

The only one i can think of is another girl, to take my mind of it, but i dont want to do that, she doesnt deserve that to get hurt. So im going to focus on her.

At linebacker30, you offer good advice. But now I am in a relationship with her. its like I have to see her, be with her, play the boyfriend part. I have spoken to her lately about it, how Im not getting anything, and she says "why are you always bringing this up"... i was like, excuse me? This is the second time ive brought it up, its because this is the longest time i havent done anything with you and im compromising a lot for you. Our relationship in this area is how you want it and i have no say... in the end i said.... I wont mention it for a really long time. Making her think I dont want it.. in the end, hoping she will want it more...

advice needed

How many times do you have an interaction with her that doesn't end in an orgasm for you?

If she isn't having sex with you, the VERY LEAST she can do is give you a blowjob. If you're leaving her with blueballs, man the fuck up and demand more from her. Otherwise you're right on track to being chastised and cuckolded while she finds some other dude who won't take "christianity" as an excuse.

You don't have to do shit for her. You just feel like you do because you're catching feelings.

If she really likes you, helping you bust a nut shouldn't be a problem.

I write this while I am in her house. Right now, she lay on the sofa, studying. I on the kitchen table. Studying. Well thats what she thinks

10 minutes ago I was laying behind her with a boner (jeans on) pressuring against her ass, while my hand was slowly moving up her shirt. When i got near the bra she moved back and hit my hand away and it annoyed me. I got up and sat at the kitchen table to where I am now. Playing that game

You see I feel like if i bring it up, the whole me wanting action it hurts my chances of getting it. I feel like its what we have been talking about a lot, and its because i want it so bad.

So to be honest, I dont know what I am suppose to do, I dont....

I dont want to cheat, i want action from her, i love her skin and her smell but to be honest I Just want action from her while dating her, then i can really begin to move forward. but she wont budge one bit.. not one it

That's exactly why a relationship with a sexually repressed girl sucks. You have to ask yourself if this is really what you want, and if it's worth the effort required.

I was going to suggest pulling your cock out, but reading the thread tells me you've already done that. Do it again anyways.

As a last ditch effort, explain blue balls to her if she's pulling her hand away. It's not something a lot of girls even know about, and as a last ditch effort it's worked for me. They usually say something like "I had no idea" or even "I do that to you? oh my I'm sorry" when I explain to them the physical pain involved. Then they give me an apprehensive wank or two, and with a little verbal encouragement, like a grunt or moan, she really gets into it. It's just as arousing for them to give you a handjob as it is for you to finger them.

That's another important thing that I'm not sure you quite grasp. You know all the sexy little sounds and moans girls make? They do that to encourage you. Girls will fake an orgasm just because they know you're more sexually satisfied if you think you've done really well. It works the same in reverse. Think about all your interactions, if you're silent when rubbing eachother with clothes on, stop being silent, it's quite fucking weird. Seriously, watch a silent porno, it's mechanical and odd. Grunt, moan, say something

Get the f*** out of there right now. I was dating catholic girl and hooking up on and off when one day mid blowjob she goes I can't do this anymore as you know o I'm catholic. You can say in the bible it says the girls who give it upbefore marriage must bet stoned to death. the bible is a book stores nothing more. Man made by men for control reasons

If she hasn't fucked you yet after this long then you need to accept that either
1. You have to play her game
2. You have to leave her
Because obviously you have lost control of this one, just by reading your posts. You said that you told her that you were compromising and all of that, for what?? You telling her that you're compromising isn't going to change anything, she already knows! And she still wants you to "wait." Plus, you're having to explain yourself. I would never explain myself like that to a female, and all their panties drop. You on the other hand, do you see what explaining gets you?

What about Ignoring her for a few days... surely there can be a few games I can play.... She is a 21 year old girl, I can surely make her want it

or some routine?

No routine can match physical escalation in terms of making a girl horny and in need of your cock. Strong eye contact, intimate touch and dirty talk are all you need. Alcohol can help, but those three have been getting men laid since humanity has existed.

Keep trying until you run out of patience, and either dump her or cheat.

There's a lot of squeezing going on here, and it doesn't sound like you're getting a lot of juice.

Is not getting sex a deal-breaker? For everyone else here, it would be.

I was raised Catholic, but I'll tell you something I noticed about people: they pick what they like about religion and discard the rest. This girl is no different. If she was hardcore religious, she wouldn't swear or drink.

Murder. That. Ass.

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I completely agree, so I don t understand how she can stand by her "religious views" of not wanting to have sex, and she says she is such a religious girl. But she swears and drinks. How do I work past that. Ive been trying so hard lately. I feel like I am making progress. She said she will "think about it"..

The other day i told her i might be leaving my college because I got a better offer at another school, she started crying and said "you cant go"... It was so sweet to see her like that. It made me feel like i could love this girl, haha... anyways, how to murder that ass?

She'll "think about it"?

Having sex with you is a privilege afforded to a select few. It's a distinct honor. You don't think about accepting a valuable gift, do you?

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Then how do I make that Clear To Her!

Try to make out in church. Worked for me before. Might work for you.

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