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Guys I know I look like a needy fucking bitch and im sorry its just this is fucking so hard. Like, ive having bad thoughts. NEver felt so alone. I realize how much i relied and needed this bitch and thats why i drove her away. I hope i get a second chance to make her realize wow he changed.
The thing is, we always communicate on SPAM... always...
it was our only source although there was the occasional facebook, SPAM, imessage.
My point is, if i block her, she will never be able to see me online or offline on SPAM. I occasionally check her SPAM to see if she herself is online or offline (to see if she is talking to other people, on her phone, typing to me, i dont know.... )
My point is, if i block her she is offline and cant see me, im bassically sending the message, goodbye.
I have hope because she said herself "so this is a break", i took my facebook relationship off on facebook and hid it, maybe she hasnt seen it yet, but it says "in a relationship" on hers. I hope it doenst change.
two things, id be fucking upset and taken a back if i see her relationship status go, dissapear, or be put to single.
Also, if i block her on SPAM, she might be sneding me crucial messages and i wouldnt get them.... also she could be like fuck this he blocked me wow ill go hook up with other guys
FUCK....
She HAS to miss me and want me back, she has to, we spoke EVERY SINGLE DAY for 7 MONTHS. EVERY SINGLE DAY NO EXAGURATION.
You still don't understand women.
Women operate on an emotional level, while guys operate on a logical level. You had always place your woman on a logical level. Read your last statement.
Sure, your woman can be texting you 7 days a week, but be banging her new boyfriend and letting him cum inside her! That's the fact of life. Why is that??
Because, who you are talking to is her "CONSCIOUS MIND", the mind that is now. If she wants to talk to you, she'll talk to you, lead you into thinking she loves you, she is taking the lead in the relationship. This has absolutely nothing to do with she is really in love with you. It is her "SUBCONSCIOUS MIND" that counts, which is why any experienced PUA or Alpha male look for actions. Since we CAN NOT see visually what her subconscious mind is thinking, we need to rely visually on her actions and body language. This cues OUR "GUT FEELING" to react by giving her space. The purpose of No Contact or Next is basically to allow her conscious mind be influenced by the stronger subconscious mind and convince her that even though you're slight needy or you did something wrong to her, she will forgive you because love conquers all! But the process for her subconscious mind to kick in is by you leading her. In every conversation, it is you who leads her to the end, not HER! If you let her lead after she contacts you, guess what, her conscious mind will continually pummel her subconscious mind to death until one day, her conscious and subconscious mind agree and you will get the "I need space" talk or "we should date other people". In that case, no matter how much NC you do to her, her subconscious mind is elsewhere; probably on a new guy. Remember that YOU CAN NOT CHANGE other people's minds. You can, however, lead other people's mind in favor of you. Just look at Apple Inc and their success with the iPads and iPhones. They are USING EXACTLY the same techniques as an experienced Alpha PUA, that makes even a cute 9.5 girl line up for the stupid phone and dumping her favorite Blackberry!
This is also a reason why women has some serious oneitis compared to males. Especially if the exes have been so good to them emotionally and sexually, they had to constantly fight their subconscious mind when their conscious mind says this new man is all better. Subconscious mind always win. Interest level is based on the subconscious mind. The new man needs to lead her subconscious mind away from the ex,which means he needs to be even SUPER Alpha. Very difficult to do. Most people just walk away from women with too much baggage. You should just walk away. Why waste so much energy.
Again, if you had listened to us and be calm, you may be able to lead her subconscious mind back to you. It's a slow process. You decided to invent your own cook book and try to cook this thing faster. When she said you can date other women, it's basically done like dinner.
Women I found..
Her subconscious mind listens ONLY to an Alpha male.
Her conscious mind listens ONLY to a beta male.
Alpha male talks to women through actions, which is the only way to communicate to her subconscious.
Beta male talks to women through words, which communicates to her conscious mind. Words aren't going to even get close to her subconscious.
This is why women says 1 thing and does another. Her subconscious mind trumps all. Which is why Alpha males let women chase them, because only her subconscious mind do this and they are not worried if his woman texts like 10,000 beta guys as long as he's not paying the phone bills! Lets her wonder what the heck her man behaves like this (so unpredictable and so cool and can't be tamed).
Watch the movie "Inception" acted by Mr. Leonardo C. and pay attention to power and influence of the subconscious mind! Like he implanted an idea into his wife's subconscious and manifested into her real world.
You probably heard why some women were willing to rob banks for their boyfriend or suck cock willing eventhough their past BF of 3 to 5 years did not get it. Because her subconscious mind overtook her conscious, so any bad and strange behavior will be honored just so she can be one with this man.
Take care.
CHAT