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PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:06 pm 
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now this put me in for A spin.

my reply: You don't need to avoid him, I trust you. We all can hangout sometime.

her reply: Ha as exciting as that idea sounds I think I'll just stick to hanging out with you :)


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:18 pm 
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I replied: Hey. I am a little upset that you posted up the picture of the flowers. I overreacted a bit even though I trust you and have nothing to be jelous of. Its just an awkward situation.

She replied: I am sorry I upset you. That wasn't the intention. I mentioned to him that no one bought me flowers before so he wanted to be nice is all. It wasn't a romantic gesture at all. I hope you don't hate me.. I was so worried that you weren't going to talk to me again. :(

Im probably going to respond with something along the lines of "Its alright, I just really do like you" or "Its hard to hate someone you really like"
So despite people giving you amazing advice, you do the opposite. It's only an awkward situation if you make it awkward. She's with you, having sex 3-4 times a day is a sure sign that she's into you. In fact, that's pretty much certain.

From what you've said the guy giving her flowers is beta. The fact that she told you about it and even told you what he said when you left is great. Put it past you, fuck her brains out and forget about the guy. :)


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:26 pm 
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I think I know what happened here... Mr. Beta guy must have been pissed because she removed the pictures and because of this she could have found out that this guy is not really a "friend" of her. That's the most reasonable explenation I can come up with. From now on it is best to just leave this topic. Your girl was really understanding and she doesn't even care about this anymore so neither should you. Just don't bring this up, the guy is screwed for life with your girlfriend already anyway. Live your relationship happily, and try to avoid being jealous.

Just a quick note. If your girlfriend is intending to cheat on you with someone, she must be way too stupid to put pictures of flowers and things like that in front of your eyes. In almost all of these cases the dude is just some friendzoned beta guy. If she wants to cheat she will make sure you don't know about it, however there will be very clear signs. Loss of sexual interest, a marathon of disrespectful behaviour, boring conversations, and optionally, lots of arguments. I see none of these here, so you just don't worry, be happy ;)

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:36 pm 
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I think I know what happened here... Mr. Beta guy must have been pissed because she removed the pictures and because of this she could have found out that this guy is not really a "friend" of her. That's the most reasonable explenation I can come up with. From now on it is best to just leave this topic. Your girl was really understanding and she doesn't even care about this anymore so neither should you. Just don't bring this up, the guy is screwed for life with your girlfriend already anyway. Live your relationship happily, and try to avoid being jealous.

Just a quick note. If your girlfriend is intending to cheat on you with someone, she must be way too stupid to put pictures of flowers and things like that in front of your eyes. In almost all of these cases the dude is just some friendzoned beta guy. If she wants to cheat she will make sure you don't know about it, however there will be very clear signs. Loss of sexual interest, a marathon of disrespectful behaviour, boring conversations, and optionally, lots of arguments. I see none of these here, so you just don't worry, be happy ;)

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Sounds good man, the thing that makes me think is that the guy is her coworker, a manager to be exact in a small convenience store so she is going to be around him for 40 hours a week and she kind of turned down my offer to hang out with him. Maybe im just overthinking things.

This conversation was done over text, we are probably meeting up tonight and im sure it will get brought up.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:05 pm 
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Just a quick note. If your girlfriend is intending to cheat on you with someone, she must be way too stupid to put pictures of flowers and things like that in front of your eyes. In almost all of these cases the dude is just some friendzoned beta guy. If she wants to cheat she will make sure you don't know about it,
Ive had more GFs cheat on me than not... none since finding PUA. I find that many times they want to get caught. I figured they wanted to break up but were just too pussy to do so. I dont think putting a pic up is outside the realm of possibility. Actually, I think its a total sign but only when the following happen...
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Loss of sexual interest, a marathon of disrespectful behaviour, boring conversations, and optionally, lots of arguments.
Totally agreed... and a marathon of disrespect might be an understatement.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 5:20 am 
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Ok guys this just in.

I met up with her at a local mall. We walked around for about 45 minutes. Left, went out into the parking lot. Talked for 20 minutes or so. Started to make out then proceeded to have sex for the next three hours in her car. There were some intermissions of course. I got off, she got off, it was great. She made the comment "It felt really intimate this time... more than the others". It could of been me, I was feeling pretty emotional and was really pulling her in close with my arms missionary style.

Afterwords, she also said "its scary how much I like you".

We did speak lightly on the subject, but I still think I maintained my manhood; I largely blamed it on a misunderstanding on the circumstances. She said when girls get nice things, they like to put it on facebook. She also said the her buddy opened up last night that he has genital warts and got it from his girlfriend who had cheated on him and is using cream to combat it. I guess im one of 3 people who know in this world. I emphasized that I dont want her avoiding him if he is her friend; she moved from Virginia and has really only made 2 friends, a female and a male.

One funny event. We got caught by a security guard who is also a state cop. He shined the light in the car, asked us for ID. He then proceed to say "im all for people getting some, but I can have you guys arrested...." I laughed a little, he gave us a warning. Luckily we had finished and were in the process of getting dressed.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 23, 2013 3:19 pm 
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Good news then :) nothing to worry about. You had a bit of a slip up but nothing to worry about.


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