I'm good at talking to girls in some situations and not in others. The situations in which I'm good at are not useful for getting them in bed, so my overall record is poor.

I have good interactions with girls I'm NOT interested in, especially if they're a friend of a friend or somehow in my extended social network. I can maintain a humorous and sarcastic character with them that works for them and for me. The fact that I'm good friends with the girlfriends of my guy friends makes me think I'm doing this right. On a number of occasions, I've gotten girls that I'm not interested in try repeatedly to attract me.

In the end I'm still a FC because I can't get the girls that I want. I'm terrible at talking to attractive girls. I've approached very few random girls, and I'm not good at this either. In both situations I have very little to say to them. I get a little nervous and all of a sudden perform way below what I'm capable of.

I'm also bad at escalating, and I think it's because I'm not comfortable with touching. However, once touching has been established between us, it becomes very natural very quickly.

Based on what I've said, what should I be doing to improve my game?

The more you talk to them the easier it'll get my friend. have you been through any PUA material yet?

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

I've been following some pua blogs for 2-3 months.

Well I always think that RSD's blue print is a great place to start.


Best of luck

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z