i think i have opening and getting phone numbers well. but i need help building rapor and comfort, closing with girls. i met this girl at work and things have been goin ok. i know she likes me and least finds me attractive. she was flirtatous with me when i first met her. i gamed her up pretty good, was flirtatous back at her. i didn't ask for her number right away. i thought that would be better. it shows that i am not neady. i got her phone number the third time i talk to her. i think she is really reserved and unexperienced. she said she wants to get together and do something. but everytime i ask her, she is always like i work all week. i am busy. i have ask her if she wants to get together and do something like three times. we have talked a lot of texting mostly, i have tried to send he a lot of cocky comedy, teasing, but she doessn't seem to get into it. and i have shown her that i am an important cool guy. whenever i ask her to do something it is pretty cool. like a party or state park, movie. what should i do next?

first of all u dont need to show her your a cool guy act based upon that if ur a cool guy shel find out all byherself !

and what u should do is just go to her and be direct since shes giving u indicators of interest (iois) and tell her whats your schedule when are u free so i can take you out for a cup of something wonderful ? also if your not sure if shes into you u can say that in a friend tone so that would make her feel tottaly comfortable

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You're playing it pretty well. I don't think there is anything else you could do, other than work on your patience with her.

Women like her have deep-underlying issues, and take a WHILE to warm up [in a sense].

She may have been hurt in the past, and/or currently in a shitty relationship, so it may take some time.

It all boils down to if you want to put that much time/effort into gaming her.

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