hi, im glad i discovered this forum. i am a guy from belguim(sorry for bad my inglish haha) that is already 17 and never kissed a girl.
im realy not expecting to gonna be a player by learning from this communication; and i dont want to be one. just want to be able to approuch and talk to girls. sounds weard, but when im with girls even allot younger or/and not realy cute ones i get nervous. feels like i screwed up every chance in my life. so i think that is my goal for now . if you have questions about me or me experience(not that i have anny) feel free to ask.

It'll mess with your mind if you come in to the seduction community not wanting to seduce women!

Get it into your mind: "You have all the friends you could ever want in the world and your out to get girls to fuck you. End of."

It's protection mechanism. You'll understand one day!

Have you read the game?

Welcome dude! I have to agree with Influx. Wanting to get into the community and not wanting to seduce or be able to get with hot girls is like ordering a McMeal but you only want the relish, the best part of the meal are fries, the coke and burger! You're leaving out and not wanting to get into the inner working of the PU society and what it offers man, I think you'll change you're mind once you understand more. But yeah aswell have you read The Game at all?

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Well you should consider the "ability to approach and talk to girls" just as a first step and not the final and ultimate goal. There are many steps of improving yourself and your "game". Only by learning and going through all the steps will you learn what you want from a girl/relationship/etc...

But first, start with the easy things and focus on inner game ("how to think") and then you can continue with "what to do".

The inner game will affect also other areas of your life so its basically its the most important thing.

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thanks for the reply's guys, and totaly agree with what u say. espescially that what spd13 sayd about my goals. and no i didnt read the game, i think i shud. my inglish is not very impressive so i hope i can find it in my own language. is 'the game' also about the inner game, or only focused on how to seduce women? annyways thanks again!

edit: checked it out and yes there is a netherlands version. gonna buy it this weekend

The book The Game is not a manual on how to seduce woman. In simple terms, it tell the story and process of a guy (who is the author, which makes it EXTREMELY interesting and full of good stories) who goes from "no game" to Master PUA. Its inspirational, educational, and its probably the best way to have a clear picture of what the PUA community is all about! Also, you will find lots of references to different PUA material. Get the audio book on itunes. It is read by the author and main character of the book... its lots of fun. It is in english, but they use accessible vocabulary!
I started studing this material at about 2 years ago. When i first got introduced to the art of pick, i never thought i would be using seduction techniques taught by others or anything. Skepticism and curiosity was what got me to study this science! That curiosity was transformed into interest and fascination, and now i just love the new me. Its not just about getting laid. Its about becoming a better social being, and even finding a new YOU, a YOU that you like to be, that you are pround of. I know im a way more interesting person. Learning how to interact with the opposite sex will help you in LOTS OF WAYS! ... but dont take my word for it... see it for yourself!
Good luck on your journey

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The Game is easy to read and lays down the base...