HELLO community! I am like I imagine many of you started, a shy person. I have tried approaching women before against every instinct my body was saying against it, usually going badly, ALWAYS going unsucsesfully (no close is even a failing point once)

apart from spelling my great weaknesses are:

slow brain, awkward pauses as my mind gets distracted easily, too submissive rather than the authority, bad at acting on hints, too staring, awful dress sense, very slow socially

I feel I have to have a plan of what I'm going to say because I would be too nervous to make anything up. I have started reading the game and am trying to walk around more confidently and stare less.

I would say I am average looking and physically very weak.

I really hope I came to the right place

First thing, and can i say, i can sense the self loathing from here. LOOSE IT. You have to be able to like yourself for anyone else to like you. Most of the modern stuff you will get here is based around inner game which requires confidence.

Im glad you can assess your weaknesses, but what are you strengths? and everything you stated as a weakness can be changed. And you have taken the first steps, so i welcome you with open arms mate truely i do.

First off, finish the game. Read it and then from there read a couple more as you begin to practice.

I suggest:

Mystery method
Ross jefferies Speed Suduction
David deAngelo Double your dating

From there once you have a solid foundation you can move into natural game. This is all about confidence. Once your confidence is unshakable women will flock to you, no matter how bad you dress or how physically weak you are. Women like inner strength more than outer strength. Remember that.

Any questions feel free to message me mate. Also your from london. Me 2? Fancy a wing? I was once in your position and a couple people helped me out and they made me promise once i was in a position to help others i would. So i extend this invitation to you. Inbox me where your from and a bit more about yourself and we can go from there.