So a friend of mine (who is very succesful with women) lent me his copy of The Game the other day. I read it all and became fascinated. I can't say I'm completely frustrated by women, as I'm 21 and have had sex with about 20 women, but a large part of those were drunken one night stands.

I want to be able to consistently get the 9/10s, as I go to university in a city full of gorgeous women. I feel like I'm pretty good at opening, and can even DHV (I speak 3 languages, have traveled a lot, play rugby for my university, etc...) but I struggle to go from friendly to seductive. Whenever I meet a girl I really want, I end up friendzoned or almost totally ignored.

Any advice on what do to? Also, anyone that lives around central Florida contact me, it would be great to find another aspiring PUA to talk to and sarge with.

It would be helpful if you could put up like a situation, and what you said and did. Since you haven't given us enough information to really find out what your problem is exactly anything we told you would be an educated guest.

Its hard to give a specific example of an entire relationship that ends up getting nowhere, but I know I can approach (most) women in social situations, and even entertain/be funny etc... but I seem to struggle getting them to see me as seductive instead of nice and funny.

From what I can tell you need probably a lot of help it is more than likely a accumulation of things. From my own personal experience I would assume that you do not kino escalate and you don't ever put exchange IOIs with the girl. When you consider yourself DHVing what do you do to DHV with the group?

I would agree I dont kino escalate much. I dont have a problem touching them, just scared to creep them out. I need to learn how to do this gradually so they are comfortable with it. I dont know what you mean by exchange IOIs, like, how do I show that Im interested in her?

And, I tend to not speak too much to the group, but rather individually. I do most of my picking up at bars. To DHV I usually mention stuff about how I play on the rugby team, speak 3 languages, etc...

The idea of kino escalation is that you touch them "non sexually" a lot through the pickup by plaiyng games that involves using their hands and such. Just try and touch them in anyway you can but only for a short amount of time. If you haven't touched her once then you can't go and put your arm around her. IOIs are indicators of interest. That means that she is showing you interest after you dhvd. These things are like she asking your name, she being playful around you, she jumping through your hoops aka questions, etc... go here if you need morelist-of-iois-vt36387.html Your problem is that you have no idea what to do once she is attracted to you. After you dhv and get her attracted to you she will throw you iois. once you get three iois you can advance and start giving her iois back. The whole time you should be kinoescalating. When giving her the iois back dont ever compliment anything that has to do with her physical appearance, but don't give her to many iois make her jump through your hoops and play with her while doing such but at this point don't neg if you do by accident then just try to recover.