Let me jump right in and tell you guys a little bit about myself.
I am 21 years old, have only had 1 girlfriend in the past that did not last long and I suck with girls. I believe that I have a pride issue or am simply afraid of rejection, because I have never asked anyone out before(my ex chased me from the get go). Although I do not consider myself to be amazing I believe that I have certain qualities that make me attractive because many girls I've secretly liked in the past, although I never got anywhere with it, had a crush on me as well(sources are their friends, but I tend to only find out after the chance has been lost i.e they get a boyfriend). Now, because I've never chased anyone I have no idea how to attract women. I'm not the shy type, I have a lot of female friends but that seems like the most I can do. Also, when I start to like someone I turn into the 'nice guy', because it's only natural for people to want to do things for someone they like right? I learned it the hard way. All I was doing was telling them that I don't care about myself and will do anything for them in return for nothing. This recent incident made me realize certain things, and has propelled me to learn, and be able to attract the woman of my dreams when I come across one. That was actually quiet long, but hey, nice to meet you guys