I am from upper Michigan. 28 years old. I started dating a girl that i was friends with for about 3 years and it didn't last long and she used me bad and crushed my world. So I started working on getting over my shyness and my "nice guy syndrome". Reading self help books. I am half way through "The Game". I was an olympic weightlifter for 12 years and now am an olympic weightlifting coach, track coach, personal trainer and a bobsledder. I am 220 pounds of shredded muscle and have lifted more weight than most people in this country but when is comes to women "total bitch". All the girls I coach love me and i have many girls tell me i'm hot but i have no game. So i am here to learn