I`m a college student and I think I have a problem with conversation with chicks. I usually get stuck in boring conversation like 'where you from?' 'what's your major?' 'where do you live?' so ordinary conversation. And then after finding out where she lives I get puzzled, not knowing what I should ask or say next.

I`m a foreign exchange student and It's been 2 years so I`m not that familiar with language yet but I`m skilled enough to say whatever I want.


anyway, where was I? oh yeah so I run out of conversation material quickly and then the silent moment comes up. when that akward silent moment comes up, now the chick is the one who start asking me a question which is always "how do you like being here(America)?".

8 out of 10 chicks has asked me this same question, wow, so sick of it.

It seems chicks always wanna hear something interesting and exotic from me, but I always answer the same thing.

"I love music here, I like house party which my country doesn't have."
(of course, I can't say I like blonde white girl dancing to rap gangsta music like Waka Flocka) girl drop it to the floor I love the way yo booty go ♪

and that's it. usually my conversation ends here and chicks leave.
sometimes it makes me crazy that even some chick comes up to me first and starts talking to me and I`m the one who blew the chance.


what I really want is turning that ordinary conversation into a dirty talk, naturally.


if I introduce myself briefly, I wouldn't say I`m good looking guy but, I have good above-average-look enough to attract normal looking chicks. but that's not what I want! If I were to hook up with normal looking chick, I wouldn't be here writing this. I WANT HOTTIES. anyway, please give me a little bit of advice

i had the same problem i mad a list of thing to talk about with girl i have about 50 stories subjects and topics i just have to try them out and see how wel they work its weird too cause one second im talking about school and the other im talking about a completly diffrent subject i got to make shifting subject little less noticable
point is theres this routine called threading its linking the subject to the next one like example ya im hear from another country she ask what do you like about america u say i like the music and house parties she say cool u say what do u like about america say it right back try it imagine she say i guess i like the beach imagine u do live near a beach u say something related to the beach in any way talk about ya i allways wanted to try surfing it on my list of things to try before i die then smile haha shell laugh say me to or i surf all the time u say i also want to try sky diving she says i allways wanted to try that u ask if u made a bucket list what would be the top three thing u put on there wait thats a good question i got to add that to my list and this started with her asking u what u like about america and it ended up with things u allways wanted to try just say anything relatiable to the origannly topic and theres to ways to keep a conversatian going by asking a questian or saying a SPAM......

thanks for the quick reply. I like this website already! that was really helpful specially asking-her-back part. I've been forgetting the simplest thing on conversation haha.
'what do YOU like about this country' seems to be a good starter.

anyway, can I ask something else?

I was at this party last night and met one of my neighbor. (she's pretty hot and she lives right down the hall from me). We've known for almost 6 months as neighbor but we're not that close friends because we haven't run into each other much. I heard she's kinda boy-crazed girl and I heard this from her roommate. sometimes I think that is true because everytime I run into her she gives me this big hug that kinda feels like it's beyond friend-zone. anyway, finally last night we met at the same party and shared some brief conversation. and during that conversation, I got to know the fact that she broke up with her boyfriend very recently. But I knew she always had a second boy who might be taking the first one's place. so I asked her about how that second boy is doing (of course, I didn't say 'second boy' literally) and what she answered was pretty shocking.

"oh, I don't hang out with him anymore. because he likes to f*** every girl and he couldn't find any f*** potential from me so he gave up."

funny thing, I wanna bang her too since I`m a dude. but If i`m gonna be seen as the guy who tried to f*** her, I`m gonna be screwed like him.

Even if she shed "do not dare to try to f*** me' at that night, the way she has shown her love to boys, I think I can nail it. (cuz I don't think she's a 'save til marriage type of girl) problem is just don't know how to. what kinda conversation do I have to go through to get laid? of course, get her drunk would be the first thing but I need a kind of step-by-step thing to acheive this ultimate goal.

i feel like this is some kind of test to see if you would give up after she said that not a shit test but a test so keep at it but your going to need some series game