Whats up fellow bosses this is my first post ever love to get some good feedback! I've been dating this girl at school in san diego for a few weeks now, we had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago and it's been really going good I've been generally doing all the right things...
Its the last week of school so we have finals and I took a study break so we could hang out. We are kicking it at my place, clothes come off and all signs point to us having sex as usual except literally within minutes of me gettin' it in she says she doesn't want to distract me from studying/be the reason i fail my test because we had sex and i got tired or some shit...seemed kinda like a cop out to me since she took off her clothes before me..after a bit of nagging (probly not the best thing to do) i said we're over it and we got dressed and i walked her back towards her apartment.
My mistake was that i was visibly upset with the situation because i was just plain confused but got i was basically over it on the walk home....
..interestingly enough though as she kissed me goodnight she said she wanted to continue our dating over summer even though we are gonna be kinda far apart so that's def a step forward in our realtionship....what i want to know is what do you think was up with her pulling that shit and what should my reaction if any the next time we are about to get it on?
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i think she was doing the right thing and was being very considerate. you should have accepted it without showing any eagerness to have sex. women are really drawn to guys who are diligent and have self restraint. also a girl likes a guy to pass his exams and be successful, big DHV lol. hope you do well in your finals and have a great summer with your girl