Dear PUA World,

I'm totally an AFC. I'm bitter. My life is boring. I'm easily irritated. I tend to complain and project negative energy without realizing it. I have been wholly dissatisfied with every last second of my life. All of this translates to HAVING NO FRIENDS.

Okay fine, I have a friend or two, but they are lame. Alright alright, I like to make jokes, chill, talk about girls, but what is doing all that stuff when women aren't present in my immediate situation?

I've read plenty of material, I've actually gone out to try to utilize the methods and structures, etc, but with no one to suffer with - it makes everyone SO MUCH MORE difficult.

I'm from Chicago, IL, where awesome nightlife exists, but it means nothing if I don't take advantage of any of these things or know how to capitalize on them

I have fears, though rejection has become less and less of an issue - as I've made enough approaches and grown balls big enough to not care - but I would like to start seeing success and hopefully with a buddy.

You may realize that I'm needy - I would like to change that too. It blows telling everyone your deepest darkest secrets and fears.

Now for the logistics:

>where you're located
Chicago, Illinois

>your age
23

>how you got into "the game"
saw the Pick Up Artist, Keys to the VIP, read some books

>how long you've been studying and practicing pickup
read it and applied some but not as frequently as I would like (at least four days a week)

>which pickup method(s) you like to use
the ones that work

>what your hobbies/passions are
psychology, money

>what your goals are
to finally get laid, have girls to chill with (and play with)

>and whatever back story you wish to share with us.
oh, I almost fucked a chick and got nervous.....good thing she thinks it's her fault lol

Hit me up because I'm serious, I want to succeed and I would like to grow.

welcome

one thing:

how many brothers and sisters do you have?

how old are they?

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Discourse is a powerful thing. You are those things but not for the reason that you think. Apart from self-character assassination you weren't really clear about what the problem is.

So you want to make more friends so that you can utilize a bigger social circle? Are you inviting people from here?

To some extent you're being honest with yourself and that's a great starting point, but I think you have a very narrow vision of who you are and what makes you (un)interesting.

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.

Negative attitude creates negatives vibes. It's very simple.

welcome

one thing:

how many brothers and sisters do you have?
Older Sis, younger Bro

how old are they?
25 and 18
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Discourse is a powerful thing. You are those things but not for the reason that you think. Apart from self-character assassination you weren't really clear about what the problem is.
My problem is that I don't know how to attract women that I desire and that I don't have friends. I know one leads to another, but I want to master this pick up thing so that I can have that lead to a better social situation. I hate being lonely.

So you want to make more friends so that you can utilize a bigger social circle? Are you inviting people from here?
I just got on this forum but am searching for wingmen! I'm pretty outgoing but I've certainly been on a slump.

To some extent you're being honest with yourself and that's a great starting point, but I think you have a very narrow vision of who you are and what makes you (un)interesting.
I bet you are right!
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Negative attitude creates negatives vibes. It's very simple.
I know this is true but it's not simple to be positive when you know deep down inside that there's no satisfaction with your situation. I want to improve and move forward.

thx

so, having a older sister surely is good as you may probably at easy when it comes to speaking to a girl...

nonetheless, i would probably advise you to start frequenting social groups or social events, doing something that would bring you around people around your age.

that way you will start making some acquaintances that will lead do new friends.

so.. start slowly

act needless, and start asking "HOW" questions.

look for videos from michael Diangelo

read about double your dating

the happy mindset is a important tool also so... every time you may be down, write down in paper everything you love, even if its a draft...

i would also advise you to see the movie The secret or reading the book too...

picking up girls is mean to be fun.

having a wingman surely helps but, if you believe in yourself, you can conquer everything!

regards


Jesus

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