Hi all,

To give you a quick background. I used to have decent natural game because I always had a high level of confidence. I was in a 2 year LTR that ended poorly and after that I swore of dating for a while. After 3 years and dwindling confidence, I decided it's time to get back on the horse. My friend referred me to this forum and I'm excited about learning more. I know I still have it in me just have to find the confidence again. In October I opened some sets in Stockholm with locals there no problem...I just needed booze to help me use the situations around me to approach.

I want to focus on more of a natural game approach because it seems as the community becomes more and more popular, there's a higher and higher risk of being "the same" or using lines that others have used before. I'm sure there has been discussion about that. Any opinions?

JV

It's good to start off with canned material as a noob and then as you gain experience begin to use a more natural approach. Hope this helps you.

What would you recommend I look into? I'm completely new so I'm not sure what works and the different unique aspects of each program. Def. need to up my inner game too.

I am definitely not opposed to using stuff to help arm me and be more confident in conversation. However (I know this might sound dumb to some) I'm not just looking for quick lays so I just want to retain my personality.

Based on what you've just said you should definetly check out Mystery Method "How to get beautiful women into bed" you can get it as an audio book and also as a book, whichever you prefer.

It's not just about getting beautiful women into bed there's a goldmine of tips on social dynamics that you will find very appealing.