Hey everybody I'm new here and I'm 25 year old dude. Firstly let me tell you I don't have any problems with hooking up with girls for one night flings etc. ( girls that I don't feel to emotional for ). So I'll be short and go to the problem : I have hooked up with a girl at the end of the last year at work party ( we work at the same place ) and I was drunk she was drunk we had a great time ( without sex ) so it was OK for me no feelings for her or anything then she got my number and we kind of started texting and getting to know each other ( talking at work etc... ). She told me that from the moment she started to work at the same place as me she was attracted to me and she asked me if I have any serious relationship and how is my view on it and I told her I'm currently not looking for any serious relationship etc.. we texted a lot, but everytime I asked her to a drink she found excuse, but one day I finally got her to come and visit me at my house we talked at first and then we kissed a lot etc.., but she wouldn't go further and I didn't push it. But now things have turned I kind of fallen in love with her and told her this like 1 month ago and now everytime I try something she pulls back and tells me she wants to be friends for now. Now I don't know what to do I have probably fallen in a "friend zone" and NOW she wants to go to cinema, drinks, ... what have I done wrong (telling her my feelings for her, maybe coming on her to strong and maybe I'm to nice and sweet (I am once you get to know me
), I complimented her a lot). I want her to chase me again not vice versa
. Should I ignore her at work, messages, calls and those drinks she wants to have? Should I tell her I'll come and then just find an excuse or it's over for me with this girl? I'm not so strong to be just friends I want something more. Thanks in advance for taking time and reading through this and maybe helping me find a solution. BTW she is very hot and a lot of guys chase her
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