Ahaha good for you! welcome,
The best things you can learn are the ones you will pick up (no pun intended) with practice, this community is definitely a great tool to read small portions of material and going out there to try things as much as you can.
I feel like if someone invests too much money or time into 1 philosophy, they will start worshiping that one style, often times seeing superficial results as more than they really are (So careful with bootcamps). Everyone should be benefiting from taking all the important bits and pieces from everyone's work, effort and experience, thats why this is a community and not a cult, everyone is mostly right and everyone is somewhat wrong.
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Feelin up her bra and attempting to massage her
I think Sixty would say something really appropriate to this like "Just take your cock out and put it in her hand" Trust in this principle and you'll get a lot more orgasms from women (unless you just want to marry her, have dry sex once, grow old and die together instead lol)
Best Luck, keep us posted.