Hey ive been on and off this forum over the last few years and never really pushed forward with anything as ive had other commitments. However i feel that ive now reached a point where its time to sort my life out....not only on the women front but on a number of other frontiers as well....problem is how and where and how do i start? Bit of a dirty little secret being on here....like in the game you feel like its admitting failure...

i know the game is not only just about sorting ur life out with the ladies but becoming an all round better person. So any ideas on where to start?

I want a better job, a better lifestyle, more confidence, and a nice girlfriend .

So gentlemen...im at the cross roads where do i begin? I always feel like i get bogged down by time.

Your thoughts are appreciated!

Simon (Birmingham, UK)

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im the type of guy that likes to rome around,im never in one place, i rome from town to town, im a wonderer, yeh a wonderer, im a wonderer....

Set some short-term and long-term goals, and make them the most important things in your life. Work towards them every day. They should be realistic; baby steps. It takes a long time to make drastic changes in things like personality. Don't let anyone discourage you from achieving your goals. Keep your eyes on the prize.

All of these things sound cliche, but they're the real deal.

It's tough, but the rewards are worth the sacrifice(s). Keep us posted on your progress!

I'm new myself, but I feel like skimming forums at random isn't the best way to get your start... I would read a book or two on it (The Game is all I've read). Even if it isn't cumulative, it introduces everything in a logical sequence and explains the ideaology as opposed to specifics. Hope that helps.