Hey I’m new to pick up and I’m sure pick up at work has split ideas but I work at a hotel (a nice one not a pay per hour place) and I see plenty of good looking women for work and stuff like that. Now I’m not talking about any married ladies but I think I could work to at least get the number and take them out so I can take them but honestly I’m not looking for anything serious and I would tell them but I just really am interested in growing more social and skilled in pick up. .

What I feel I need work on:
Being better with people over all.
I’m still working on having someone hooked.
I want to be the life of any room
Get conferrable in my body (I got in an accident so scar and partial loss of movement of my hand...sucks) ---is there a way I can work that in so it’s not some uncomfortable thing to explain later.

My info short:
Live in a small town with little opportunity to pick up
Will try at my college library but I’m in a 2 yr school so its many pregnant women/married ladies
Still stay at home and 20yr old

Would take any advise cause I just got out of a relationship like 3 yrs. never was great with girls and its like I’m using old grade school tactics[/u][/i]

As far as the girls at work go, use your own discretion. On one hand, you should take advantage of every opportunity handed to you, but on the other hand, you don't want to put your job in jeopardy. Go for it, as long as you understand the risks involved, and are willing to accept the consequences if the shit hits the fan.

I know how you feel about the pregnant women and married ladies. I did two years in a community college myself. Single moms are, on average, pretty easy to pick up. The only thing is, they're wicked clingy. They're like Dobermans: once they sink their teeth into you, they don't want to let go.

As for you other goals: there's TONS of information on that stuff all over this site. There are a lot of books and whatnot written about it too. Books on body language and psychology can be really helpful, as are some of the PUA books. Most of the big-name PUAs have videos on YouTube that are extremely helpful, and free.

Anyways, welcome to the site!