About four weeks ago I began digging into the information out there about meeting and attracting women. I've been breaking old habits and trying to step outside of my comfort zone. I started out by making it a goal to randomly complement people / say hi to strangers and strike up conversations. I'm an AE student in a state college so I'm in a rich social environment, which makes this much easier. This process has really helped tear down the walls I was throwing up between myself and others. And I gotta say my self-image / self-respect / self-worth has really improved.

Probably my biggest problem was that I was too serious of a dude. When I met new people before I was like an interviewer. Now I tease people and try to have fun with conversation instead of mining for information. I still have a long way to go and improve but I'm already starting to see some results. My goal is that when I leave an interaction with someone, that they feel better, remember the experience, and want more later. So naturally I want to be more mysterious and more fun... and I think I can find a lot of tips on that here.

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"He will win who, having prepared himself, waits to take the enemy unprepared." -Sun Tzu

Welcome! I used to be like that too. I still am to some extent, but I've gotten a lot better over the years. Anyway, there's all kinds of useful shit on here if you know where to look. See you around, bro.