Hello everyone!

New member from Belgium here, Aeth. I'm really looking forward to exploring all the rich content this forum has to offer.

A little bit about myself (I'll try to be brief) and why I joined:

- It starts in 2007 (20 at that time) when I just got out of a 1,5 year relationship
- 'Got out of a relationship' actually means getting dumped
- I took my time to get over it and started dating new people
- The thing is it wasn't really dating, it was a 7 day 'cyclus (?)' of meeting someone, seducing her, sleeping with her, dumping her. In the end I wasn't really proud of what I was doing.
- That went on for about 6 or 7 months and I was actually really 'good' at it.
- Then something happened, for some reason I started disliking 'the game'.
- When I would take someone back to my place I actually hated it. 'Here we go again'. To a point where I was just making up excuses for not having to have sex.
- From one day to the other I had completely stopped picking up.
- Three years have passed. Three years without a single woman.

- I would like to say that now 'I'm back!'. But I'm not, I would like to be though.
- What changed? I'm older, balder, somewhat more serious, less self confident, less attractive, less 'playful'. I can't be / act to be the person I was a few years ago.

I joined here today to enjoy all the social dynamics / interaction again, instead of being a boring lame ass guy. And i need your help.

Three goals for now:
- Better self esteem ('inner game' that's called?)
- Less thinking, more doing.
- Enjoy myself and have fun, and be fun to be around!

Thank you for reading through the wall of text!