Perhaps I'm on the wrong site, perhaps theres nothing to be said in order to help out my cause.
I need to win back an ex...
we broke up a year ago
we started talking a month ago
hooked up to weeks ago
now are talking occasionally
but I'm not sure how to proceed...
help please and thank you

I'm not an expert here man

but you have what is called a oneitis
cure for the onitis?
get another girl

there are many girls out there man billions in the world there isn't one specifically designed for you and if there was what are the odds of this girl being her

anyway that's my advice

but if you're really hung up on her I'll give you the advice someone gave me

get lost for a while
then come back completely changed new clothes, new haircut, new car
you name it come back a different person

but like I said if you hook up with other girls you'll realize that maybe she's not THAT special

well... best of luck

I'm actually not a guy, I'm a girl lol.

and I got a new guy, actually I've tried four since him.
dated one for two months, and another for five, both of which I thought it could possibly work with.

I know it seems I'm hung up on him, but Ive done my best to forget him for a year, but if you cant manage to get someone out of your head after this long and after everything Ive tried then perhaps hes there for a reason.

Well, you gotta say why you think you lost him to begin with? Pretty far reach for you to come to a PUA site to get a guy back so I gotta think you are serious. I know there is atleast one women that post alot in here. She seems to have a pretty good understanding of both sides of the coin. Make a topic with a tiltle to get her attention and I am sure you will get some good responses.

wow sorry godes
shoulda caught that lol

but yeah like timer said what caused you guys to break up?

I'll still go with the make changes advice

you don't have to change yourself
just show a side of you no one's seen before

and like girls, guys are dime a dozen and there's some really good guys out there don't get hung up on one
there's no such thing as a soul mate

one more thing when you said "hooked up"
do you mean you kissed or did you sleep with him

'cause if you did that's ur mistake

afterwards he will just see you as a bootycall (no offense)

that's why i think if a girl really likes a guys she should only sleep with him if they're in a relationship
sex is no way to get into a relationship

best of luck